I have a fantasy about making my boyfriends cum, seriously, I love it inside me, all over my body, on the bed, his stomach, even inside a toy.
Just seeing the rush of pleasure he gets as he ejaculates all over my breasts and face is thrilling and knowing I caused it gets me turned on BIG time.
Over the past years, I’ve become amazing at getting him off and pretty much control his orgasm.
This article is about my secret sex toys I used to make him cum multiple times and he uses when I’m not around to f**k or suck.
Before we get into this article I just wanted to mention that I do have my own erotic book that I have filled with some of my most erotic sex stories so feel free to check that out!
So… Shall we begin.
Table of Contents
- Our Little Secret Weapon
- The First Male Vibrator He Tried
- His New Fleshlight (How It Made Him Last Longer During Sex)
- Our Most Used Male Sex Toy
- My Favorite Sex Toy He Owns
- Toy He Uses To Get A Harder, Longer Erection
- Delay Spray That’s Amazing For P.E
- A Selfish Toy I Love Him To Use During Sex
- The Prostate Massager That Gave Him His First P-Spot Orgasm
- Vibrating Butt Plug
- How To Get The Most Out Of Your Male Sex Toy
- The End.
Our Little Secret Weapon
I pop my bullet vibrator into the bottom of this masturbator, squirt loads of lube on his cock and I go to town, sucking his balls, thrusting this up and down and massaging his gouache, he cums real quick, as you can imagine.
He uses it alone and say’s it feels just like a wet pussy and once you add that bullet vibrator you’ll start shaking with pleasure.
The First Male Vibrator He Tried
When I want my boyfriend to cum everywhere and have mind-numbing sensation I get this vibrating masturbator.
I slip his cock inside, put it on a high vibrating setting and kiss his abs and thighs, while slowly licking his balls in between.
It always takes him less than 5 minutes to cum and when he cums it’s almost like a female orgasm, his whole body stiffens up, starts shaking and it lasts about 10 seconds.
This is his go-to toy for when he masturbates alone and the number of orgasms he’s had that involve him, this toy and some porn make it well worth the high price.
His New Fleshlight (How It Made Him Last Longer During Sex)
If you want to f**k a tight pussy while you’re single or your girlfriend is out of town then this fleshlight will blow your mind.
My boyfriend originally got this toy when he couldn’t last past the 3-minute mark during sex, but quickly it turned into one of his all-time favorite masturbators.
I’m a really happy girlfriend, because not only has my boyfriend enjoyed himself with this toy, he now has no problem lasting longer during sex, he can even hold on while I cum on his c**k, which was something we’ve been working on a long time, but never got there due to him cumming to soon.
I asked him what his workout (with this sex toy) is to help him last longer and this is what he gave me:
Trust me this works better than anything you’ll find online.
Our Most Used Male Sex Toy
The thing me and my boyfriend look for in toys is:
1. Big, explosive orgasms
2. Easy to clean
3. Good quality
If a toy can give us these then we use it all the time and the Tenga flip hole is f**king amazing.
He can barely last a minute inside it and we’ve used it hundreds of times over the past years.
He will sit there for hours building up his orgasm, testing different techniques and stopping every minute to avoid cumming and then once he lets go and cums it’s unbelievable the pleasure he gets.
All of the toys on this list are amazing, but this Tenga has given him some of the best orgasms of his life.
Plus, it’s easy to hide, doesn’t look like a sex toy and takes seconds to clean (which is not common for male sex toys).
My Favorite Sex Toy He Owns
My boyfriends got a lovely sized c**k, but I and a lot of women do enjoy the feeling of being completely filled.
That is where this penis extender came in, now I write a whole story about the day my boyfriend surprised me with this penis extender and how it gave me one of my first orgasms during sex (something I’ll never forget).
Since then we’ve used this extender many times and it’s really changed our sex lives.
I’ve came on this toy more than I can count and when my boyfriend gets it on I get weak at my knees, the girth, length, everything, just gets me turned on.
The only shame is that a lot of women and men may be closed off to the idea of using a toy like this.
Toy He Uses To Get A Harder, Longer Erection
I never believed in penis pumps, I felt like they were a joke, something for novelty effect.
I kept seeing the name Bathmate everywhere with amazing reviews my boyfriend decided to give it a month trial, he measured his self every day and I had sex with him and we posted all the results on this penis pump article.
His erection lasted longer, was stronger and even longer than ever before.
He has a much bigger flaccid penis and I’ve noticed it the most in the bedroom, his reaching parts of me he couldn’t reach before.
I’m not sure it’s for everyone, but my boyfriend has now been using this penis pump for over 90 days and the results have been amazing.
Just be sure to take it really slow and work your way up in time.
Here’s my boyfriend’s penis pump workout plan:
Delay Spray That’s Amazing For P.E
If you suffer with premature ejaculation and need a quick fix then you can grab yourself some of this delay spray.
You put it on around 10 – 15 minutes before sex and it’ll numb you and allow you to last longer during sex.
It doesn’t stop your pleasure, it just helps get past that mental block that stops you from lasting past the first few minutes of sex.
As a girl I have some top tips:
- This can rub off on women, so wear a condom or wash it off after ten minutes and you’ll still get the effects without the risk of it rubbing off on your girlfriend.
- If you use condoms with delay spray already in , understand it’s less effective than this spray, because delay spray gets stronger over time and it effects grow.
- Use my boyfriends other advice and delay workout, he now only uses this on nights where I’m in real need of some long, hard, s*x.
A Selfish Toy I Love Him To Use During Sex
Okay, I’ve added this toy for selfish reasons.
What are they, you may ask?
Well, I’ve only recently learned how to reach orgasm through penetration and this vibrating cock ring was one of the ways I learned how to cum while my boyfriend was inside me.
It gives my boyfriend a rock hard erection, helps him last longer in bed and once that vibrator touches my clit I lose control and beg my boyfriend to thrust deeper, the deepness mixed with the vibrations is enough to make me cum in minutes.
Trust me, as a girl I can say there’s nothing hotter than when I cum on my boyfriends hard d**k and feel him try not to ejaculate inside me while I squeeze him tight and moan.
The Prostate Massager That Gave Him His First P-Spot Orgasm
My boyfriend never used to play with his butt.
He would force my hand and head away any time I went near that area.
We spent some time apart at the beginning of the year and I got him a little prostate massager, I knew he’d not use it, so I gave him a deal…
…I’d start using anal toys and let him try anal sex with me, if he gave a prostate massager a try.
He agreed and as any man who’s had a prostate orgasm knows he’s mind was blown when he achieved his first orgasm.
It lasted 10 + seconds, it was like 5 normal orgasms and it was the best sensation of his life (he’s words, not mine).
That was achieved with the prostate massager above and has now got the golden place in his sex toy collection.
PS: I lived up to my end of the deal and after 3 months, we had full anal intercourse for the first time in our relationship (more on that in a future article).
Vibrating Butt Plug
The prostate massager above is amazing, but we needed something a little smaller to use during sex.
Nothing hit the spot, then after much testing, we tried a vibrating butt plug.
It was sex-life-changing, like game-changing, but better!
Once we found it we bought another one and now we both wear these butt plugs almost every time we have sex.
They stay in place, they send vibrations all over my lady parts and his manly parts and when he’s inside me he can feel all the vibrations over his cock.
The sensations turn me into a little slut, honestly, he could do anything sexual to me when this is inside me and I’d be at his feet begging for more.
How To Get The Most Out Of Your Male Sex Toy
My boyfriend and I have a list of things that make male sex toys WAY better, here they are:
Use Loads Of This Lube With Your Toy
My boyfriend used to think he could get away with DIY lube or lotion when using sex toys, safe to say many of his toys had to go in the trash.
So, If you want your sex toy to be silky, slippery and extremely wet like a real girlfriend then you need to grab this water-based lube.
It’s easy to clean, can be used in real sex and is completely skin and toy safe.
I even use this on all my sex toys and during sex with my boyfriend, it’s perfect.
Use It With Your Girlfriend
Gentleman, I love nothing more than rubbing a fleshlight over my boyfriends hard cock, feeling his load get ready to shoot out and then pulling it off when he cums so I can use my mouth to really make him cum hard.
Your girlfriend might be the same.
Bring it up, ask if she’d like to try some sex toys.
I started by using a massage wand, while my boyfriend used his masturbator in some mutual masturbation, now we both use the toys on each other.
So, don’t assume that your partner doesn’t want to try a male sex toy on you, you might be missing out.
Don’t Be Afraid To Mix Things Up And Explore Your Body
I always avoided anal sex thinking it was wrong, so did my boyfriend.
Despite my girl friend telling me how amazing anal play is, I ignored them and didn’t try it till recently in my late 20’s.
I missed out and since we’ve started exploring anal play our sex lives have improved and we’ve had some of the best sex of our lives, me and my boyfriend just wish we had tried it sooner.
So, go slow, experiment and remember there’s nothing wrong with a little anal play.
Stop and Start
Coast, get yourself to the point of orgasm, then cool down.
Do this 5 – 10 times and your orgasm and load will be massive.
Try Some Real Erotic Adult Content
I used to watch adult content on tube sites, but damn it gets boring.
There’s only so many times I can see a “REAL amateur threesome” or a “big dick f**ks tight pussy” before I start getting bored.
So, I gave up on porn… Then I found Erika Lust, she creates real erotica.
Just watch her content and you’ll see how much better it is than normal tube site content.
I also have a thing about guys getting off to my writing, so read some of my content and just know I touch myself daily to the thought of you getting horny reading my content 😉
Too much information, probably. Just the truth.
Always Clean It And Dry It After Uses
All the male sex toys on this list are easy to clean, which is a MASSIVE plus.
You just need to rinse them with cold water and a little amount of soap, lightly pad with a dry towel and then leave to dry.
Doing this will increase the life of your toy by years and will keep it fresh and new.
Okay, this was weird.
Writing an article about male sex toys as a girl, I’ve asked my boyfriend about a thousand questions and we’ve tested these toys so many times I just felt like it was time for this article.
If you enjoyed it please let me know and I’d love your feedback. I’ll be updating the blog soon with more images of my self and body, should be exciting. Have a wonderful day – Jess.