Best Male Sex Toys My Boyfriend Owns

I have a fantasy about making my boyfriends cum, seriously, I love it inside me, all over my body, on the bed, on his stomach, even inside a toy.

Just seeing the rush of pleasure he gets as he ejaculates all over my breasts and face is thrilling and knowing I caused it gets me turned on BIG time.

Over the past years, I’ve become amazing at getting him off and pretty much controlling his orgasm.

This article is about my secret sex toys I used to make him cum multiple times and he uses them when I’m not around to f**k or suck.

Before we get into this article I just wanted to mention that I do have my own erotic book that I have filled with some of my most erotic sex stories so feel free to check that out! You can also get it for free by becoming a member.

So… Shall we begin.

The Best Male Sex Toy

the best male masturbator

I pop my bullet vibrator into the bottom of this masturbator, squirt loads of lube on his cock, and I go to town, sucking his balls, thrusting this up and down, and massaging his gouache, he cums real quick, as you can imagine.

He uses it alone and say’s it feels just like a wet pussy and once you add that bullet vibrator you’ll start shaking with pleasure.

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The First Male Vibrator He Tried

the first male vibrator ever made

When I want my boyfriend to cum everywhere and have mind-numbing sensations I get this vibrating masturbator.

I slip his cock inside, put it on a high vibrating setting, and kiss his abs and thighs, while slowly licking his balls in between.

It always takes him less than 5 minutes to cum and when he cums it’s almost like a female orgasm, his whole body stiffens up, and starts shaking and it lasts about 10 seconds.

This is his go-to toy for when he masturbates alone and the number of orgasms he’s had that involve him, this toy, and some porn make it well worth the high price.

His New Fleshlight (How It Made Him Last Longer During Sex)

woman holding a fleshlight stu

If you want to f**k a tight pussy while you’re single or your girlfriend is out of town then this fleshlight will blow your mind.

My boyfriend originally got this toy when he couldn’t last past the 3-minute mark during sex, but quickly it turned into one of his all-time favorite masturbators.

I’m a really happy girlfriend, because not only has my boyfriend enjoyed himself with this toy, he now has no problem lasting longer during sex, he can even hold on while I cum on his c**k, which was something we’ve been working on a long time but never got there due to him cumming too soon.

I asked him what his workout (with this sex toy) is to help him last longer and this is what he gave me:

guide to lasting longer in bed
how to last longer in bed

Trust me this works better than anything you’ll find online.

Our Most Used Male Sex Toy

Tenga male sex toy

The things me and my boyfriend look for in sex toys are:

1. Big, explosive orgasms

2. Easy to clean

3. Good quality

If a toy can give us these then we use it all the time and the Tenga flip hole is f**king amazing.

He can barely last a minute inside it and we’ve used it hundreds of times over the past years.

He will sit there for hours building up his orgasm, testing different techniques and stopping every minute to avoid cumming, and then once he lets go and cums it’s unbelievable the pleasure he gets.

All of the toys on this list are amazing, but this Tenga has given him some of the best orgasms of his life.

Plus, it’s easy to hide, doesn’t look like a sex toy, and takes seconds to clean (which is not common for male sex toys).

My Favorite Sex Toy He Owns

3 inch penis sleeve

My boyfriend got a lovely-sized c**k, but I and a lot of women do enjoy the feeling of being completely filled and this penis extender does the job every time.

That is where this penis extender came in, now I write a whole story about the day my boyfriend surprised me with this penis extender and how it gave me one of my first orgasms during sex (something I’ll never forget).

Since then we’ve used this extender many times and it’s really changed our sex lives.

I’ve come on this toy more than I can count and when my boyfriend gets it on I get weak at my knees, the girth, length, everything, just gets me turned on.

The only shame is that a lot of women and men may be closed off to the idea of using a toy like this.

Toy He Uses To Get A Harder, Longer Erection

bathmate penis pump

I never believed in penis pumps, I felt like they were a joke, something for a novelty effect, I had the same thought when I ordered a Bathmate Pump.

I kept seeing the name Bathmate everywhere with amazing reviews my boyfriend decided to give it a month’s trial, he measured himself every day and I had sex with him and we posted all the results on this penis pump article.

What happened? 

His erection lasted longer, was stronger, and even longer than ever before.

He has a much bigger flaccid penis and I’ve noticed it the most in the bedroom, his reaching parts of me he couldn’t reach before.

I’m not sure it’s for everyone, but my boyfriend has now been using this penis pump for over 90 days and the results have been amazing.

Just be sure to take it really slow and work your way up in time.

Here’s my boyfriend’s penis pump workout plan: 

penis pump routine
bathmate routine

Delay Spray That’s Amazing For P.E

If you suffer from premature ejaculation and need a quick fix then you can grab yourself some of this delay cream.

You put it on around 10 – 15 minutes before sex and it’ll numb you and allow you to last longer during sex.

It doesn’t stop your pleasure, it just helps get past that mental block that stops you from lasting past the first few minutes of sex.

As a girl, I have some top tips:

  • This can rub off on women, so wear a condom or wash it off after ten minutes and you’ll still get the effects without the risk of it rubbing off on your girlfriend.
  • If you use condoms with delay spray already in, understand it’s less effective than this spray, because delay spray gets stronger over time and its effects grow.
  • Use my boyfriend’s other advice and delay workout, he now only uses this on nights when I’m in real need of some long, hard, s*x.

A Selfish Toy I Love Him To Use During Sex

lovehoney vibrating cock ring

Okay, I’ve added this toy for selfish reasons.

What are they, you may ask?

Well, I’ve only recently learned how to reach orgasm through penetration and this vibrating cock ring was one of the ways I learned how to cum while my boyfriend was inside me.

It gives my boyfriend a rock-hard erection, helps him last longer in bed, and once that vibrator touches my clit I lose control and beg my boyfriend to thrust deeper, the deepness mixed with the vibrations is enough to make me cum in minutes.

Trust me, as a girl, I can say there’s nothing hotter than when I cum on my boyfriend’s hard d**k and feel him try not to ejaculate inside me while I squeeze him tight and moan.

The Prostate Massager That Gave Him His First P-Spot Orgasm

prostate massager in my hand

My boyfriend never used to play with his butt.

He would force my hand and head away any time I went near that area.

We spent some time apart at the beginning of the year and I got him this prostate massager, I knew he’d not use it, so I gave him a deal…

…I’d start using anal toys and let him try anal sex with me if he gave a prostate massager a try.

He agreed and as any man who’s had a prostate orgasm knows he’s mind was blown when he achieved his first orgasm.

It lasted 10 + seconds, it was like 5 normal orgasms and it was the best sensation of his life (his words, not mine).

That was achieved with the prostate massager above and has now got the golden place in his sex toy collection.

PS: I lived up to my end of the deal and after 3 months, we had full anal intercourse for the first time in our relationship (more on that in a future article).

Vibrating Butt Plug

butt plug

The prostate massager above is amazing, but we needed something a little smaller to use during sex.

Nothing hit the spot, then after much testing, we tried this vibrating butt plug.

It was sex-life-changing, like game-changing, but better!

Once we found it we bought another one and now we both wear these butt plugs almost every time we have sex.

They stay in place, they send vibrations all over my lady parts and his manly parts and when he’s inside me he can feel all the vibrations over his cock.

The sensations turn me into a little slut, honestly, he could do anything sexual to me when this is inside me and I’d be at his feet begging for more.

How To Get The Most Out Of Your Male Sex Toy

My boyfriend and I have a list of things that make male sex toys WAY better, here they are:

Use Loads Of This Lube With Your Toy

adding lube to a male sex toy

My boyfriend used to think he could get away with DIY lube or lotion when using sex toys, safe to say many of his toys had to go in the trash.

So, If you want your sex toy to be silky, slippery, and extremely wet like a real girlfriend then you need to grab this water-based lube.

It’s easy to clean, can be used in real sex, and is completely skin and toy safe.

I even use this on all my sex toys and during sex with my boyfriend, it’s perfect.

Use It With Your Girlfriend

cartoon of using a sex toy with a partner

Gentleman, I love nothing more than rubbing a fleshlight over my boyfriend’s hard cock, feeling his load get ready to shoot out, and then pulling it off when he cums so I can use my mouth to really make him cum hard.

Your girlfriend might be the same.

Bring it up, and ask if she’d like to try some sex toys.

I started by using a massage wand, while my boyfriend used his masturbator in some mutual masturbation, now we both use the toys on each other.

So, don’t assume that your partner doesn’t want to try a male sex toy on you, you might be missing out.

Don’t Be Afraid To Mix Things Up And Explore Your Body

trying a butt plug

I always avoided anal sex thinking it was wrong, and so did my boyfriend.

Despite my girlfriend telling me how amazing anal play is, I ignored them and didn’t try it till recently in my late 20s.

I missed out and since we’ve started exploring anal play our sex lives have improved and we’ve had some of the best sex of our lives, myself and my boyfriend just wish we had tried it sooner.

So, go slow, experiment, and remember there’s nothing wrong with a little anal play.

Stop and Start

stop and start masturbation

Coast, get yourself to the point of orgasm, then cool down.

Do this 5 – 10 times and your orgasm and load will be massive.

Try Some Real Erotic Adult Content

cartoon of someone watching real adult content

I used to watch adult content on tube sites, but damn it gets boring.

There are only so many times I can see a “REAL amateur threesome” or a “big dick f**ks tight pussy” before I start getting bored.

So, I gave up on porn… Then I found Erika Lust, she creates real erotica.

Just watch her content and you’ll see how much better it is than normal tube site content.

I also have a thing about guys getting off to my writing, so read some of my content and just know I touch myself daily at the thought of you getting horny reading my content 😉

Too much information, probably. Just the truth.

Always Clean It And Dry It After Use

how to clean your sex toys

All the male sex toys on this list are easy to clean, which is a MASSIVE plus.

You just need to rinse them with cold water and a little amount of soap, lightly pad them with a dry towel, and then leave them to dry.

Doing this will increase the life of your toy by years and will keep it fresh and new.

The End.

Okay, this was weird.

Writing an article about male sex toys as a girl, I’ve asked my boyfriend about a thousand questions and we’ve tested these toys so many times I just felt like it was time for this article.

If you enjoyed it please let me know and I’d love your feedback. I’ll be updating the blog soon with more images of myself and my body, which should be exciting. Have a wonderful day – Jess.

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8 thoughts on “Best Male Sex Toys My Boyfriend Owns”

  1. Great article. Why doesn’t he use the Tenga for training instead of the Fleshlight?

    • The fleshlight works really well for him and has really helped! He finds it a lot easier to train his stamina and seeing how long he can last. Thanks for your comment 🙂

  2. Wow, you’re an awesome girlfriend he’s so lucky! If you ever dump him please contact me baby. I would love to make you cum over and over, make you squirt and drink your juices!! Mmmmm. ?

  3. I’d have to add – a strap on that goes over his penis for dp on me 🙂 An anal wall toy for him, best BJ EVER when I get him to backed up onto it! And I’d have to say that machine you showed us.

    • That sounds so awesome xxx

  4. wow really awesome toys for men
    very effective product

  5. I had a girlfriend use a strap on and loved it

  6. When girls talk about fake pussies for guys it turns me on so much! In some part of my mind I’m thinking you’re not even supposed to *know these things exist!* 😀 Of course I realize that’s unrealistic, but it’s still hot when I see evidence that girls do know. They know that a horny guy needs pussy so bad that he’ll even pay good money to get a fake one, as I have, rather than go without. I’ve had a Fleshlight (one of the pornstar models) for about three years. It feels very good but is a bit tight for my preference. Oh, and I love the images of your hand, holding the toys. Knowing what your hand could do to me…. mmm, it’s erotically painful that I can only look.

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