How To Suck A Big Dick

We have all been there, you unzip his pants and find a ginormous dick and you have absolutely no idea what to do with it and least of all how to suck it.

Having a big penis to play with can be great but it can also be a nightmare if you aren’t sure what to do and how to give it the best kind of pleasure.

You see, in my experience, I have found that sucking a small dick and sucking a big dick both have different techniques and both require different attention. You can read my advice on how to suck a small dick here.

I have had plenty of practice with different sized dicks and I found that big dicks are some of the hardest to master.

You’re in for a wild ride in this article but if you follow my in-depth tips you should be able to suck a big dick like a pro and have your man begging for your magic tongue.

The first thing I am going to do is let you in on one of my biggest and best-kept secrets. I used to have the WORST gag reflex, anything used to make me retch (even brushing my teeth) so you can imagine how hard it was for me to suck big dick without gagging.

However, I found a solution and if you’re anything like me or just don’t fancy your chances when it comes to sucking a big dick and potentially gagging, you need to try some of these big dick sucking techniques and tricks.deep throat spray

This deep throat spray is a miracle worker if you’re worried about gagging, all you need to do is spray a fair amount on to the back of your throat a few minutes before you begin the wonderful act of fellatio, wait and then go to town. The spray numbs your throat so it stops you from feeling anything and makes it so you don’t gag.

The mystical mint flavor isn’t always available as it’s the most popular so if it’s there and in stock and you like mint over cherry, just be aware it isn’t always available!

It’s perfect for those who want to try there hand at deep throating and perfect for those who do have a gag reflex and want to impress the dick they’re sucking.

I have found this spray lasts ages and it’s easy to pull out of your handbag or bedside drawer without arousing too much suspicion.

I used to gag from the simplest of things and when I started spraying these before giving oral sex it made me feel so much more confident and actually allowed me to try out all of the moves I wanted without worrying about gagging.

How To Suck His Cock Like No Other

Be confident, Be sexual, be provocative, be a master and if you can’t? Just fake it until you make it. I have learned over the years that the majority of men LOVE a woman (or man!) that’s confident in the sheets, even if you’re fake confident and actually have no idea what you’re doing but you look like you do, it’s a massive turn on.

When you have a big dick in front of you, take it with your hand, use some of this flavored lube and start by playing with the tip of the penis with your tongue. Take your tongue and let it linger around the tip, make swirling motions with your tongue and gently use your lips to take the head into your mouth.

When it comes to sucking any kind of dick, especially a big dick it’s important to tease. Teasing your partner is not just a turn on but it does things to your body that makes you inflamed with desire.

Gently take your tongue and run it along his shaft and make sure to miss the tip of his penis, it will drive him wild.

Even if you’re unsure, if he’s moaning, you’re doing it right. Just be confident, shut your eyes and imagine what would feel good.

Never Do This In A Blowjob:

  • Use your teeth
  • Kiss his pubes
  • Lick his butt without consent
  • Put your fingers in his butt without a subtle approval or nod
  • Never bite down
  • Swallow unless you really want too, it doesn’t make the blowjob any better and it’s really not necessary.

Big dick can be a little intimidating especially for people like me who have a  bad gag reflex like I mentioned before, but there are things you can do and they even make sex essentials for guys or gals like us.

Aside from the spray, I like to suck on one of these mints.
oral numbing mints
Pop two in your mouth before you suck dick and it makes your tongue and throat go numb, the effects don’t last for too long but enough to allow you to really get in there and perform oral sex to your heart’s content without worrying about gagging. I use these mints and the spray combined most of the time and they really do help me to feel more confident about my abilities and allow me to really give the best pleasure I can to my boyfriend.

These mints do take a while to dissolve so you can either chew it and get it to numb your mouth and throat quicker OR pop it in during foreplay, which is what I do. Nobody is going to be complaining if you’re sucking on a mint and it’ll make your breath smell great.

They are also really discreet to be kept inside your handbag or bedside cabinet and you do get lots inside one tin.

Suck Him Like You Own Him

Enthusiasm is key. Mixing enthusiasm with ‘fake’ confidence and you have yourself the perfect mix. It’s enough to drive anyone wild and if you’re actively up for sucking his dick and showing how much you enjoy it, you will be driving him wild just talking about it, trust me.

Something I used to do to make myself more confident is turn off all of the lights and have my partners wear a blindfold and that allowed me to just let go of any confidence issues. Now I have a long-term boyfriend we don’t always turn the lights off but if we are trying something new or I really want to let loose I do turn the lights off and maybe light a candle as it allows me to really let go and give it my all.

It’s A Challenge To Deep Throat A Big Penis

OK if you’re confident enough and are up for the challenge try your hand at deep throating, talk to your partner and see how far you can go (make sure to use the spray and mints combined, it’s an absolute lifesaver).

However, deep throating can be a daunting task when someone has a big dick. Speak to your partner beforehand and ask them not to push your head when you’re down there, it can make you instantly gag, especially if you have a sensitive gag reflex and also unless you know it’s coming, it’s not a nice sensation when the guy has a big penis.

You can also make sure you have lots of saliva on his penis to mimic the sensations of a pussy, pair this with some cupcake flavored lube and it will feel amazing for him and taste amazing for you. Go down on him, get to the point you feel comfortable with and allow saliva to awash his penis, trust me on this one.

Deep-throating isn’t the endgame, going as deep as you can does not mean the best and greatest blowjob and you and your partner should both be aware of that. If you don’t enjoy it, let your partner know and ask him what else feels good and focus on that.

Deep-throating feels good to start and end with, don’t just focus on taking it as deep as you can, focus on the tip, the shaft and the balls too.

Suck The Tip Of His Penis (Real Talk)

cartoon of oral sex

Porn would LOVE you to believe that deep throating is the way to a man’s heart but its nowhere near as stimulating as giving good head. Literally.

Stimulating the tip of his penis is like sucking on your clitoris. If you can perfect this technique then you can become a professional in your own right at sucking dick.

Stimulate his penis with your tongue, plenty of salivae and even some flavored lube if you have it to hand. Watch his face and see what he responds best too and even ask him what would feel good, each man is different (just like women and their clits!) but there are simple rules you can follow to give him the best blowjob of his life despite the size of his penis.

  • Swirl your tongue in circular motions around the head of his penis
  • Lick up and down his shaft focusing on gently pressing the head with your tongue
  • Let the head of his penis ‘pop’ in and out of your mouth and use your tongue to stimulate
  • Place both of your hands on the shaft of his penis and take his penis in your mouth and practice in rhythm with your hands.

Actually asking your partner what he likes or what he thinks he will like is a huge turn on and it actually allows you to give the best blowjob, it shows enthusiasm on your end and it means he will get the best oral sex ever.

Practice Makes Perfect

You may not be the best at sucking big dick when you first try it but practicing will make you better at it and speaking to your partner or the person you’re hooking up with will help you.

You can also practice on large objects if you have a dildo or even a large enough penis shaped object to hand practice taking that into your mouth and do all of your best moves. Take yourself out of the moment and just imagine what would feel good for you and practice those moves.

This tip works best if you are already in a relationship, firstly he gets lots of blowjobs and you learn exactly what he likes.

The Gag Reflex Magic Trick

I have known this one for years and I am surprised that more women and men don’t know about it. It’s an incredibly sneaky and effective way to suppress your gag reflex, It does work better in unison with throat numbing spray but it is a trick that can really help you from gagging and allow you to go to town on that big dick.

Take your thumb and wrap it under your index finger, it should now be resting on your middle finger, squeeze down with your index finger and now test your gag reflex with your right hand and you should notice your gag reflex has gone or has been suppressed.

I don’t know how this works and if you do please let me know in the comments but it does work and really helps you to get as deep as possible on the dick.

Use Your Hands While Sucking

cartoon using hands while doing oral sex

Although I disagree with it if your partner has a bad habit of pushing your head down his shaft when he gets too carried away and activating your gag reflex, something you can do is use your hands. Firstly, it feels great to mix your hands and mouth when sucking dick but it also stops your mouth going any further than you want it too.

By using your hands it also means you can focus on the tip of the penis whilst your hands do all of the hard work, make sure you use lots of saliva and lube to make it as slippery as possible.

Use plenty of lube and saliva and work in rhythm, you may also find that with enough practice you can go further down the shaft that you could previously as you practice and work with your gag reflex.

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