I'm Jess

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I'm Jessica the creator and writer of omgkinky.com. I decided to create this page to share a little more about myself and the inner workings of omgkinky.com.

I share a lot, but it's spread between loads of different stories, guides, and reviews, so I decided I needed a place to share who I am, why I created this website, why I share things most people keep to themselves, and what my plans are for the future.


I'm The Girl Behind The Website

I'm Jess, I'm in my mid-twenties and have been writing this blog for over three years now. Gulp, time really does fly.

I made omgkinky with help from my boyfriend and my best friend Lindsay (she is now a big part of the site).

I have shared every part of my sex life either publicly or inside of the membership and I wouldn't have it any other way.

I keep things honest and do my best to create the best reviews, guides, and stories around.

I'm a really sexual person and sex makes up a big part of my life. I love masturbation (with and without sex toys), I'm a massive fan of size play and I love threesomes with men and women.

I also must add that for someone who shares a bunch of her sex life online, I'm actually a pretty private, sometimes even shy person.

I created omgkinky to have a safe place where I could share stories about my sex life.

Why Did I Start Omgkinky

it's my safe place to share my sexual journey

For someone who shares a bunch of her sex life online, I'm actually a pretty private, sometimes even shy person.

In the beginning, sex toys allowed me to explore my body and then my fantasies without the awkwardness of actually doing it.

I could play with different sizes, try a threesome, explore my butt, all from the comfort of my home.

This got magnified when I met my boyfriend, he really opened me up and took away a lot of the shame/guilt I had about trying certain things.

We then started diving deeper and deeper into sex and it eventually lead to us opening up our relationship.

We started with threesomes, both men and women and now we also play with other couples.

He loves to watch me with other men and I love to watch him with other women.

I never would have thought it would have worked, but for us it really does.

This lead me to really start using my platform as a safe place for me to talk about my sexual journey.

I had no idea I would meet so many amazing people and learn so much about myself.

Achievements & Accomplishments

I have worked in the sex industry for over 8 years, combined with my friend Lindsay who has been working in this world for 12 years, which gives us over 20 years of time in this wonderful erotic space.

Omgkinky has been running for over 5 years. All of which have been massive learning experiences for me.

Omgkinky has had over 6 million views over the past year. Which makes all the worry and time spend writing worth it, I appreciate every single one of you who visit and come back to my site. 

I have over 500k views on Quora. I write sex advice, so if you want me to answer your question publically head over to Quora.

I've tested over 460 sex toys (I now have countless sex toy trunks and I have a room in my house that's just filled with sex toys) - life goals.

Hundreds of people have shared their explicit stories, pictures, and videos on my membership. This is a great space for people to share their sexual endeavors and we are a great community there.

I spend an average of 5 days researching, creating, and editing a single guide. I will always choose quality over quantity.

All content is proofread by a ph.d. candidate (or industry expert) and I'm currently in the process of getting certified as a sex educator. I want my readers to feel even safer in my hands.

I have met so many amazing people through omgkinky and even had the pleasure of playing with a few (you know who you are).

Featured on multiple amazing websites. It makes me so happy to see people sharing and talking about my blog and I have been lucky enough to be featured on so many incredible websites too. 

Facts About Me

If you're nosy like me, then you might want to know a little more...

Favorite Sex Toy: It changes all the time. Right now it's the womanizer, my magic wand, and still the penis extender (game-changer for a couple)

Do I Enjoy Anal? - I love it.

Creampie? - For me, sex only feels complete with a creampie, but I do really enjoy swallowing and even facials (when I don't have my makeup done)...

How Often Do I Masturbate? - a lot.

How Often Do I Get Shared/Share My Man? - monthly, sometimes extra with a friend/s from out of town and we want to make the most of each other.

Would you sleep with a reader of this blog? - I have, so has my boyfriend. We didn't set out to, but it's happened once or twice.

Do You Swing With A Certain Age Group? - I have been with guys younger than me, the same age as me, and way older than me. I have a soft spot for older dudes though.