My Boyfriend Tried Using A Penis Extender During Sex With Me

I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and our anniversary was quickly approaching, the night comes and I’m expecting the usual, a home cooked meal, a nice glass of wine, exchanging corny anniversary cards and a late night of watching horror movies all whilst getting a little hot and heavy under the blankets.

What did I get? 

The hardest, fastest and by far the deepest sex of my life.

Don’t get me wrong I’ve had threesomes and tried my deepest sexual fantasies but I never thought my boyfriend wearing a plastic penis would be the thing that had me squirting and got me so wet I had to change the sheets and dry the bed with a hairdryer.

Okay, so now you have the image of what my tight body has gone through, let me take you back and explain what happened and what toy he used.

Before you scroll on I just wanted to let you all know that I actually have my own erotic book where I have written some of my most intimate stories, It was hard to be so open and honest but I loved writing them down and re-living some of my most sexual memories.

The Best Penis Extender He Could Find:

Side note: I never thought I’d be showing off a penis extender that my boyfriend purchased online, but if it helps some women climax and squirt like I did, then I suppose that’s just how life goes?

 So, anyway here’s the penis enlarger he used

best penis extender Penis extender in boxLovehoney penis extender taken out of boxScale of penis extender

Price Check: I found the cheapest price for this penis extender on 16/12/2018.

Now, for those of you who don’t know a penis extender is a sleeve that goes over a penis and adds 2-3 inches in length and some extra girth.

Now I had always assumed this kind of sex toy was for the ‘smaller male’ member and never thought about using it on my boyfriend who has a pretty nice penis, around 6 – 7 inches long with a nice amount of girth.

So, I was truly shocked when he got it out and dare I say I was dubious about using it, but after a glass of wine and him going down on me, I couldn’t resist the new toy.

How This Toy Made Me Cum All Over My Bed 

Let me take you back to last Friday (our anniversary night), he’d been working all day and I decided to do us a romantic dinner and get our nightly celebrations ready by doing the following.

Step one: Put on some hot underwear, got to stay sexy

Step Two: Make some food, I made us a nice homemade pizza.


Step Three: Wait… While having a glass of red wine.

Finally, he comes home and we enjoy the next few hours of chatting, eating and watching crap on Netflix.

Things start getting a little sexual and I tell him about a new sex toy I want us to try (I have updated this article and wanted to share the sex toy I was talking about: my favorite luxury vibrator, that’s when he awkwardly brings up that he had purchased a toy for us to try.

This is normal, we both work in the adult industry and think nothing of buying new sex toys a few times per month.

However I must admit I was shocked when I saw this penis extender as I was expecting a vibrator or a masturbator, but I was secretly happy as I’ve never tried anything like it before.

Anyway, things started heating up and long story short, underwear off, on a bed with my legs spread and his mouth eating me out.

I’m wet, horny and I give him the signal to get the new toy.

He runs to the kitchen which is where it is and puts it on while he’s out of the room, he then turns the light off and commands me to put a blindfold on.

I feel him get on top and open my legs wider and start teasing me, then finally he starts slowly thrusting inside and at this point, I’m dripping wet and ready to be f**ked, hard, but he’s going in slow which is building up more tension and driving me crazy (in a good way).

So, what’s running through my head?

First I couldn’t believe how much pleasure the extra girth adds, then my thoughts changed to how deep he was getting, literally when I thought it was at the deepest point, bam, he would thrust a little deeper.

I just remember holding onto his back, spreading my legs as wide as possible and cumming all over his dick, the extender and the bed multiple times.

I was a mess at this point and it only got worse.

The extender meant my boyfriend could maintain the quick, deep thrusts that make me cum without accidentally finishing inside me, this brought on orgasm, after orgasm, until I squirted.

Now, I’ve only ever squirted with a g-spot vibrator, I mean if I’m honest I very rarely orgasm through penetration alone, so to orgasm multiple times and then SQUIRT, this was groundbreaking for me!

However, after squirting I had to stop my boyfriend, as I was about to collapse from all the pleasure.

We cuddled and then I let him cum inside me without the extender as his treat.

I’d like to say we then fell asleep in each other’s arms, but my side of the bed was soaked through, I had to change the sheets and use my hairdryer to dry it out, all part of the fun;).

This penis extender is one of the biggest surprises of this year.

I did want to quickly mention that the penis extender is currently on offer and is low on stock so if you are interested I would grab it quick as I know it won’t be available for too long.

girl in red lingerie

Did We Use This Penis Sleeve Again?

It’s now Wednesday (5 days since we got it) and we’ve already used it another two times.

I basically beg my boyfriend to get it on for the first ten minutes of sex, it just opens me up, gets me cumming and then once he takes it off I find it easier to cum with just his penis.

Update: It’s been a month since we got this toy and I’ve been exploring it to the max, here are some sex tips that we’ve found work a treat with penis sleeves/extenders.

The Sex Positions That Make Me Orgasm

image of cartoons doing sex positions

Missionary: I always start here, it helps me loosen up, as I can be quite tight at the beginning especially when my boyfriend first goes it.

Doggy Style: I then move to doggy style, this toy will rub, up and down your g-spot till you have a shaking orgasm, remember to go slow and take it easy especially at the start.

Laying down flat on my belly: I then go from doggy to this position and if I’m going to squirt it’s going to be at this point.

Cover Your Penis In Lube

penis extender with lube

I get really wet when I use this penis extender, but we still use lots of water-based lube as it helps us go that extra mile, also the chances are you’ll be the biggest thing to have entered your partner’s vagina, so she’s going to be grateful for the extra lube.

Grab A Blindfold


Sounds boring?

Well, we tried foreplay using this toy and a blindfold and it honestly felt like I was having sex with another man, some won’t like the idea of this, but if you’re trying to get your girlfriend onboard this could be the fantasy that she’s looking for.

Add A Massage Vibrator

cartoon using vibrator

Want to be the best lay your girlfriend/partner has ever had? Get a penis extender and a massage vibrator and slowly thrust inside her while the massager is on her clit.

My boyfriend did this to me the last time we used it and my legs were jelly for at least 2 hours after.

girl with red lingerie

How To Get Your Girlfriend To Let You Try A Penis Sleeve?

After writing this I had a few men ask me how they should bring it up with their girlfriend/partner, so I decided to write a few tips for bringing it up.

Ask Her An Amazing Question

Do you have any sex toys you’d like to try?

Once she answers, tell her a few you would like to try and then show her a penis extender, maybe even this article and ask her if she would be down to try it.

At first, she may be against it but just explain to her that it’ll add a few inches of size, make you last longer in bed and is something that might be fun to try.

 Surprise Her With It

This is risky… however it could work If you have an open-minded relationship where sex toys are used.

All you do is go to a sex shop online (the best I’ve used is LoveHoney) and buy a few sex toys, get a massage vibrator, maybe a bullet vibrator, some lubrication, even some condoms and on top of that add a penis extender.

Tell your partner you have a weird sexy surprise coming in the mail and then open it together, explain the toys, try a different one every day, the chances are she’ll give it ago.

This is basically what happened to me and I’m over the moon with it.

Tip: If you’re worried this will work you could always mention the idea before buying anything.

Go Online Sex Toy Shopping With Her

Tell her you to have an idea, get your computer out and both go sex toy shopping online, do it together, be open about what you would like to try and encourage her to do the same.

Everyone wants to try sex toys, it’s just most of us haven’t had the opportunity too.

What Other Penis Extenders/Sex Toys Do I Recommend?

sex toys that make sex better

Over the past month, we’ve tried a lot of different sex toys with this extender and we’ve even purchased a second extender, so here are a few must-haves and other options I recommend.

Fantasy X-Tensions Penis Extender

 Fantasy X-tension penis sleeve

This penis extender is the one my boyfriend got is the highest rated online and is by far the best I’ve seen, but I’ve got a taste for this kind of loving so I’m saving up for the Fantasy X-tension as I’ve heard the realism of it feels fantastic and I’ve fallen in love with the way it looks and I’ll keep you updated once I’ve had it inside me.

Lulu Lube Natural Water-Based (My Sex Life Saver)

lulu water based lube

It usually looks like I’ve wet the bed after sex,  but that doesn’t mean I don’t love applying extra lube on top of my natural wetness. So when it comes to lube I’m a big fan of Lulu lubrication and it’s the exact one I used with my boyfriend on this extender.

On top of this I use this lube for everything except anal sex, on my vibrators, during normal penetration and even during oral to get things started.

If you haven’t already got lube, make sure you get some.

The Best Female Sex Toy

massage wand

Want your girlfriend to cum all over your penis multiple times? Get this massage wand!

My boyfriend places this on my clit while we have sex and he gets to enjoy me cumming all over his d**k again and again, till I can’t move anymore.

Mix this with the penis extender and you’ll give her the best sex of her life. Your girlfriend will thank you and probably never experience anything like it again without you.

That was my experience over the past few weeks and I can’t recommend it enough.

I even did a true erotic story about my experience with this magic wand.

Will The Penis Sleeve Replace My Real Penis?

The answer is no, this will not replace you, it will just make what you already have a little more exciting, fun and orgasmic.

Girls are emotional and even though I want to be made love to with this wonderful toy, I also enjoy sex just as much with my partners normal d**k.

Don’t get me wrong, this month we’ve gone a little crazy with this toy and we’ve had some fantastic sex, but we’ve also had some fantastic sex without this toy.

Also, this toy is still you, it’s attached to your penis and follows your movements and is there so you can experience pleasuring your partner in a different way.

You only get one life, try the stuff you’re curious about.

infographic about penis extenders

pinterest image of my boyfriends penis extender


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  1. I have purchased a different extender.
    While using it, the open space between end of my penis and end of extender collapses, from having the air sucked out of the “free space”.
    I have experienced Peyronies Disease, and since then, had a 3 piece penile implant inserted.
    As a result, I have lost 2” length, which took me down to just 3”.
    The extender I bought is flimsy and does not maintain it’s own “Hard-On”.
    I am only 3”, as noted above, fully pumped up from implant.
    The extender adds 3” to my penis. But, doesn’t hold “up”.
    Do other extenders have their own “hardness” in top 1/3 or so, that is not filled with a penis?

    • Hi! I just went to get our favorite (the one at the top of this article) and it is squishy but doesn’t collapse it holds its shape and as its 8.5 inches not many men will reach the end, however, I am not sure if there is a minimum or maximum size for it to work and not collapse. I would hate for you to buy something that doesn’t work for you so if I was you I would click on the link on my toy, it will take you to the sex toy website and there you can talk to a customer service rep (live chat) who hopefully will able to tell you the specifics and/or guide you in the right direction.
      I hope it works for you, good luck and thanks you so much for your comment xx

  2. Wow!! I’m glad I read this, I wish my boyfriend would try it on me. I’m gonna have to convince him somehow, I think he would be upset if I brought this idea up..

    • I am so glad you enjoyed my story, it really helps me to improve and of course, share more of my experiences. I do actually have an erotic book: My erotic book. Thank you so much for your comment xx

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