I had a nipple orgasm during breast bondage

Updated: 16/08/2023

I am just as shocked as you might be, I have had clitoral orgasms, G-spot orgasms, and even anal orgasms but never had I ever had a nipple orgasm before last week.

I didn’t think nipple orgasms were ‘real’, I had never heard of this happening to anyone. Of course, like a lot of people, my nipples had become aroused at some point or another and it had felt amazing when they were touched during sex but nowhere near the pleasure, I felt when I actually had a nipple orgasm.

How Did I Have A Nipple Orgasm?

It all happened one night when my boyfriend and I were experimenting with some new BDSM ideas and we stumbled across the art of rope bondage, tying one another up and learning different bondage knots that we could try out on one another. It takes a few tries to get it right with rope bondage but it isn’t impossible and just the act of using ropes in the bedroom is exciting and erotic.

I was completely frogtied and restrained with my wrists and ankles inside this under-mattress restraint kit and my tits tied up in place thanks to the bondage knot my boyfriend had done.

I wasn’t going anywhere and giving up that control and having my boyfriend have power over my body like that was sending butterflies through my pussy.

We were horny and he was teasing me with this tickler, running it across my body and slowly over my nipples (ticklers make for great soft play nipple toys).

This delicate teasing alone was making my nipples become incredibly aroused and erect and I was just lost in the moment and sensations of it all, the one thing that I didn’t think was going to happen was a nipple orgasm.

It was as if I had been transported to another dimension where every touch felt a million times better than it ever had before.

After using the tickler on my now very aroused breasts he drizzled on some edible massage oil and massaged my breasts whilst sucking on my nipples, the nipple sucking brought all of the nerve endings to the surface and now mixed with him using his hands to stimulate those nerve endings, I was on cloud 9.

He used one hand to rub the massage oil into my breasts and the warm liquid was so tantalizing. The sucking and nibbling on my nipples were so erotic and felt amazing, more amazing than it had ever felt before, each suck and lick was like having electric bolts of pleasure running through my clit.

Once he was done rubbing in the massage oil he took a massage candle (these are specifically made for wax play) and dripped the melted wax onto my breasts, I must admit I do have a little fetish for candle wax play but this was different.

My nipples and breasts felt as if they could feel every single drop of hot wax and were responding by sending waves of pleasure throughout my body.

Each touch was electrifying, I could feel that my pussy was soaking wet despite never actually touching it and my body was just aching to cum.

The aching and desire to cum was building up inside of me and when I thought it couldn’t get any better my boyfriend added some nipple clamps and began pulling on the chain which would, in turn, pull on my nipples, and with each pull, it felt like I was about to cum.

I could feel my pussy on the verge of orgasm, just one touch on my clit would have pushed me over the edge but my boyfriend kept on stimulating my nipples as I stayed completely restrained, my boobs tied up and in a total submissive mode.

He eventually removed the clamps which left my nipples in an elevated state of sensitivity, the cool air from the AC brushing against them felt incredible but he wasn’t done yet with me yet.

Neither of us set out to make me have a nipple orgasm, we were just fooling around with some boob bondage but when he took this vibrator (it’s small but very mighty and by that I mean it makes you cum easily again and again) my body gave in.

He turned it on and let its meticulous vibrations rumble against my nipples before taking one nipple into his mouth and gently sucking on it and using his tongue to play with it whilst letting the vibrations stimulate the other, I was having extreme nipple pleasure and before I knew it the pressure was building from within me and I began to cum.

What Did It Feel Like To Cum From Nipple Play?

It felt totally different from a clitoral or a G-spot orgasm, it was an orgasm through nipple stimulation and it left my pussy soaking wet and aroused just as if I had had a normal clitoral orgasm.

The sensation was amazing, it was like magic. I was left stunned because I never expected it to happen but it did and now I want to replicate it whenever I can, as does my boyfriend who was left with a very smug smile on his face.

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How To Give Yourself A Nipple Orgasm

There are certain factors that come into play, things like how sensitive your nipples are, your techniques, and with ropes, your breasts being too small can sometimes be an issue but all in all, it wasn’t that hard, it just takes some patience and the right tools.

The main things to focus on are stimulation, bringing the nerves to the surface, more stimulation, and focusing all of your energy on your nipples. Everything you need to know will be revealed as you continue reading.

Below I have highlighted all of the things that I did to achieve this wonder and I was someone who had never ever experienced anything like it before.

If you have any questions about anything I have mentioned in this article feel free to leave them in the comments below or send them to me via my contact form.

The Tricks To Good Breast Bondage (How To Tie Breasts)

There are some useful tricks to tieing up breasts, things you can do to make it all feel 10x more amazing, and hopefully achieve a nipple orgasm as I did.

It can sometimes involve a learning curve, especially if you have never used ropes before or if BDSM isn’t something that comes naturally to you and your partner in the bedroom, however, it isn’t hard and with a bit of practice and the right mindset having a breast orgasm can be really simple and a whole lot of fun.

There are things that you must take into consideration such as breast bondage safety but I will talk about all of that further on below so that you can get started on your boob pleasure journey.

Perfect Breast Tying Technique

I thought I would include the YouTube Guide to the rope bondage my boyfriend did on me. I was tied with my restraints too which I found made it more erotic and more of a submissive experience.

This is a really informative video that will help you to understand bondage knots and it means you can watch it as many times as you need to really get that rope technique right.

The Bondage Ropes That Made This All Possible

It’s important that you find some ropes that you are not only comfortable with but ropes that are good quality, able to withstand more intense play, ropes that can cause great pleasure, keep you harnessed, and give you the satisfaction you are going to be working towards.

These are the ropes that I use constantly, they’re easy to store, they are great quality and even with the more trying knots and bondage positions, I find they are able to withstand lots of pulls, tugs, and pressure.

Word Of Warning: Boob Safety

I talk more below on safe words and safety surrounding BDSM in general but I wanted to focus on ensuring that your boobs are safe when you are using ropes around them and in the bedroom.

These are the main safety aspects surrounding breast bondage that you really should focus on and be mindful of:

• Do not let the ropes on for a prolonged period of time.
• If the skin changes color or begins turning purple this means you could have a loss of circulation which
  is bad and you must remove the ropes instantly.
• Avoid tightening the ropes around your actual chest area, you need to be able to breathe.
• Have safety scissors on hand so that you can get out of the ropes quickly and effectively.
• Allow bruises to heal completely if you have any after play.
• Always make sure you can put two fingers between the rope and the skin, this will help you to avoid cutting off circulation.

Getting Amazing Nipple Clamps/Suckers

When my boyfriend added the nipple clamps to my breasts, it pushed me over the edge, these were the final straw to achieving my nipple orgasm.

However, if I had not orgasmed I still would have enjoyed the sensations from the nipple clamps and recommended them to anyone looking into breast bondage.

I use these nipple clamps but I do suggest these nipple suckers if you are new to breast bondage and nipple play as the clamps can be a little intense for beginners, especially beginners who may feel a little intimidated by the clamps.

Nipple suckers and clamps draw blood into the nipple and increase sensitivity which is what we need when you are looking to achieve a nipple orgasm.

You will also find that if you don’t cum, the heightened sensations and pure bliss that radiates throughout your body are enough, and by just using these sex toys you can increase your sensitivity to each touch, which feels incredible during foreplay.

Get Kinky And Run A Vibrator Around Her Nipples

Once my boyfriend removed the nipple clamps from my nipples, the cool air from the AC mixed with the vibrations from my vibrator resting against my nipples felt sensational.

He used my favorite vibrator, it’s small but it’s incredibly powerful and although I use it usually for clit stimulation, having it on my nipples was a welcome treat and actually a great satisfying surprise.

Some women will cum from the vibrator on their nipples alone but I recommend incorporating the foreplay as it will really tease your nerve endings and make your boobs more sensitive and longing for touch.

Although my boyfriend and I didn’t set out to make me cum like that, I found that the constant foreplay and teasing were what made my orgasm what it was.

Adding Crops, Whips & Ticklers

My boyfriend used a tickler on me, which feels nice and soft, especially when the breast is tied up but adding a crop or a whip to breast bondage play is just out of this world. The sharp smacks turn me on so much and as they ripple across my nipples I find it hard to contain myself.

A whip (This whip sits proudly in our bedroom) is a great addition if you’re into bondage, submission, and BDSM.

It is a great way to keep your submissive partner in check, it brings nerve endings instantly to the surface, which in turn makes it feel better for the person being whipped and, of course, it’s thrilling for both of you.

Don’t Be Scared To Talk Dirty During Bondage

Because breast bondage comes under BDSM it would be wrong not to try out something a little different and try your hand at dirty talk. Being able to not just restrain your partner with dominant energy but also speak to them with it too, will bring a whole new flavor into the bedroom with you.

Talking dirty may not come naturally to everyone but it isn’t as hard as it seems. If you don’t already do it, start slowly and ease your way into it, see what your partner likes and what they respond to and you may find it has a very positive effect on their performance in the bedroom too.

Here are some examples of how you can easily start talking dirty:

• Tell your partner what you want to do in detail (be vulgar)
• Whisper in your partner’s ear how much they are turning you on
• During sex tell them what to do (be dominant)
• Roleplay a different character who is confident and dirty (A master, a king, a dominatrix, etc).

Questions About Boob Bondage & Worship

Here are a few of the top questions about boob bondage, if you have any more questions just leave them in the comments below and I will give you my best boob bondage and worship advice.

Does boob size matter?

Unfortunately, it does and it doesn’t. I have fairly small boobs and we still use bondage rope and enjoy boob bondage.

However, I know some women with A-cup or flat-chested boobs struggle with using ropes and in that case, I suggest just using items such as vibrators, clamps, and ticklers to play with the nipple rather than the whole breast.

Anything above A-cup I find works well and as long as you enjoy breast stimulation then you’re going to enjoy the sensations afforded to you by this type of play.

I do find that breast bondage feels best for me at certain times of the month, I wouldn’t do it when they are overly sensitive and a little painful, so just test out what feels good for you.

If you enjoy boob play and your partner does too read this article on how I give my boyfriend tit jobs and why he loves them so much, although why he loves them is probably obvious!

Have you had a nipple orgasm since this?

Yes! It doesn’t always happen which I think anyone reading this should keep in mind, sometimes it just doesn’t want to but I have found that if I take my time and I mix foreplay, edging, using nipple clamps, a whip, massage oil, candles, restraints, a vibrator, and breast massages all into the mix I can more than likely always achieve a nipple orgasm.

Some women find it really easy when just using the vibrator and some women are like me and need quite a lot of nipple stimulation before they can actually make it happen.

I still haven’t taken it in that I can actually achieve an orgasm through nipple stimulation, I didn’t think it would happen to me and when it did it felt incredible and I just wanted to share that information with the world.

Can Men Have Nipple Orgasms?

Apparently, yes they can.

I am not a man and my husband and I haven’t tried it on him yet but from my research, I have found that actually, men can achieve a nipple orgasm, male nipples still serve as an erogenous zone and by stimulating them in the right way they can actually feel as much pleasure as the female nipple.

One study that I came across also boldly stated that by playing with the male nipple sexual arousal can be increased by over half, which is seriously interesting.

I make a point of licking my boyfriend’s nipples when I am teasing him or about to go down on him but I have never focused my complete attention on them.

However, I am sure my boyfriend would be more than happy to find out what we can do so if that’s something you would like to hear about from a male’s perspective let me know and we will get onto that.

Should I have a safe word?

I mentioned above the importance of breast bondage safety and having a safe word is also very, very important.

It’s always recommended to have a safe word during sex, especially if it involves any aspect of bondage or BDSM.

Having a safe word allows you to stop the flow for a moment to tell your partner if something is hurting you, you don’t like something, or even if you need to get up to pee.

Some people like to have safe words that go in stages such as:

• Green- I am in mild discomfort.
• Yellow – Slow down what you’re doing.
• Red- Stop.

Other people like to just have one concrete safe word that is to be used to stop all sexual activity.

Discuss a safe word with your partner beforehand and keep it in the back of your mind before any new sex experimentation.

I’m still new to rope play, so this article will grow with me as I develop more of an understanding of rope terms, knots, and ways to increase pleasure. Stay tuned,

Jess <3