There’s something so satisfying and victorious about hitting the right spot during sex. We see it in movies and corny TV shows all of the time where the woman is on the constant edge of an orgasm and telling her partner to ‘keep going’, ‘that’s the right spot’.
Unfortunately in real life hitting the ‘right spot’ isn’t that easy and some people can find it incredibly difficult to find this spot and actually penetrate it.
I love this blog because I get to share my sex life details with you and relate to a lot of you in my articles and today I want to talk about hitting the right spot and how damn hard it can actually be to find it, keep hitting it and keep yourselves in that perfect position.
I found that during missionary if my butt is elevated on a pillow, my boyfriend finds the spot but due to the pillow losing bounce, being far too soft and us losing momentum, finding that spot is just too difficult and something of a rarity.
I love finding that spot and love having orgasms during sex, but sometimes I find it so hard, so I went out looking for something that would allow me to try different sex positions and allow more g-spot stimulation and keep myself and my boyfriend in that exact spot that allows us to keep on penetrating the ‘right spot’…
….And with that, I found a sex pillow.
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What the heck is a sex pillow?
It’s basically a pillow that allows you to try different sex positions and is used to help stimulate the G-spot during sex.
It’s usually firm, for all kinds of couples and allows you to keep the position you’re in, try new positions, take the pressure off of your joints, and for me, most importantly, allow my boyfriend and I to hit the ‘right spot’ and keep the momentum and position going.
The Best Sex Pillow Ever Created
This is my sex position sex pillow, it’s an inflatable sex pillow made with a velvety-soft finish, complete with handles that offer you extra leverage and support.
The sex pillow wedge allows you to get into so many different positions, relieves pressure from your joints, and for me, I found that it allowed my boyfriend to keep on hitting my G-spot and hitting the right spot. The elevation is ideal because it keeps you in the same and being that extra bit higher allows the penis or sex toy to really get in deep thanks to you being perfectly angled.
Before I keep going on and on I do have to mention just how cheap this sex pillow is. A lot of sex pillows have insane markups and are out there for a small fortune but this one costs less than $30 which is insane.
Something worth mentioning is that it can be deflated easily which means it can come with you on romantic weekends away or even abroad.
This sex pillow is designed to take up to 300 lbs of weight so you don’t need to worry about it deflating as it is ideal for most people.
Aside from taking pressure off joints, being ideal for finding and keeping the ‘right spot’, and allowing you to try out lots of different sex positions, it’s also ideal for couples that have a big height difference.
How This Sex Pillow Revolutionized The Way I Have Sex
I mentioned earlier in this article how my boyfriend and I often find the ‘right spot’ but it never really lasts long because we can never stay in the right place for too long and it all just gets very uncomfortable, so I was excited when I came across people virtually shouting about sex pillows and what they have done for them.
The day it came I was worried we would need a pump to blow it up but by just using your mouth after a minute or two it is completely full and ready to use.
We engaged in some heavy foreplay, oral, sex toys, and clitoral and ball stimulation were all on the cards that day. We were both so horny and both came before we had even used the sex pillow, although this didn’t matter because it was just one of those days where you find the energy to go again and again.
My boyfriend slid the sex pillow onto the bed and I lay on it in a missionary position, I must say it did feel a little bit weird to be in that position and angled up but once my boyfriend slid himself inside of me, I just knew instantly why all of these people online can’t stop going on about sex pillows.
I gripped the handles as my boyfriend penetrated me hard and fast, every thrust felt like it was magnified and felt amazing. He instantly was hitting my G-spot, there was no doubt about that. The added elevation made sure his cock was going directly to my G-spot and each thrust was pushing me to the edge of a G-spot orgasm.
Before I knew it I was cumming, the intensity of having a G-spot orgasm is out of this world and thanks to the position I was in it meant that my boyfriend never stopped hitting the right spot, which is what often happens during ‘normal’ sex. My orgasm was so intense that I did fall asleep for an hour, it was just heavenly.
The next day we tried the sex pillow again and this time we decided to try out anal just to see how much easier it was with the added stable elevation. My boyfriend slid inside of me and the ease of just this was noticed instantly, there was no fumbling around, his cock was just inside of me and the pleasure began. This time I was in doggy-style leaning over the wedge, which made anal sex so much easier.
Halfway through we switched back to our trusted missionary position and my boyfriend brought me to G-spot orgasm whilst I gripped the handles on the side of the sex pillow and tried not to alert the neighbors.
The sex pillow just makes sex SO much easier, there are no more cramps, it makes getting into difficult or tiring positions a breeze, anal and vaginal sex are easier to access and there’s, of course, the added bonus of intense G-spot orgasms.
One of the best bits? If you don’t live alone or just want to store your sex pillow away? it’s easily deflated so you can store it wherever you need to.
The position below is my favorite position to be in when using the sex pillow, it is what allowed me to experience G-spot orgasms on a whole new level and allowed my boyfriend to keep the rhythm, and momentum and make me cum like a sex freak:
This is my other favorite sex pillow, demonstrating my favorite sex position.
Being in this position allowed my boyfriend to bring me to G-spot orgasm, again and again, milking my G-spot and making me feel insanely good.
Toy Mount Pillow or Sex Pillow?
This is the sex toy pillow with sex toy mount and it’s a little different from my original sex pillow. I have both pillows and both are diverse and both have their pro so it’s all down to personal preference.
This sex pillow with sex toy mount works just like a sex pillow but it also has a toy slot that allows you to slip in your sex toys that have a flared base and non-flared base so you can enjoy hands-free pleasure, kinky foreplay sessions, and more intense masturbation sessions.
Having a sex pillow that allows you to use your favorite sex toys also means you can simulate fake threesomes, enjoy double the stimulation, and experiment a little bit more thanks to the sex toy slip.
I use both of my sex pillows for different things, this one is for when we are feeling a little kinkier and want to really dive into our sex toys and want to experiment a little bit more and we use our other sex pillow when we are looking for intense G-spot orgasms without the use of sex toys, it’s also a lot easier to travel with and store.
The cushion on this sex pillow is non-slip and made with a moisture-resistant material that protects the inner cushion inside this pillow.
It’s a wonderful high-quality sex pillow with the added bonus of housing a slip for your sex toys, ideal for all kinds of positions and experimenting with all sorts of new things.
Tips & Tricks For Using A Sex Pillow (Must Read)
I’ve listed a few must-read tips for using and maintaining your sex pillow.
Best sex positions for sex pillows
My favorite sex positions to be in when using any of my sex pillows are as follows:
- Missionary (the best for G-spot orgasms)
- Doggy style
- The lazy dog
- Legs over shoulders
A new sex position each day
Take your time, and try to master a new sex position every time you use it, instead of rushing to try them all.
It can be easy to get carried away when you get new sex toys and sex accessories so try to take your time and master a few positions every single time you use your sex pillow.
Don’t inflate it up all the way
Leave a little wiggle room, this makes it more comfortable. However, for your first time, I do recommend inflating it all the way so that you can get the hang of using it, and then when you’re confident deflate it a little bit.
Hold onto the handles
I love the handles of my sex position pillows, it makes rough sex unreal and it helps to keep you in place and steady yourself.
Clean your sex pillow
Both of my sex pillows are so easy to clean, instead of having to hand wash or put them inside the washing machine, you can just rub them down and wipe them clean. This is really important to do to stop it from smelling and keep it in the best shape.
I’m Jess and I’m a woman in my twenties. I created this blog to share my sexual experiences along with the experiences of people from all walks of life. I am actually quite introverted, but my boyfriend and I have a semi-open relationship and it’s really helped me open up and experience things I never thought I would and that’s one of the biggest reasons I created this. I hope you enjoy my blog as much as I enjoy writing for it. Read more about me.