This is the best ball gag I’ve ever owned

As you may have read in my article about my BDSM collection, I am a fan of getting kinky, you may also have deduced this from the name of my site!

Getting spanked, whipped, restrained and fuc*** is something that turns me on almost instantly and something I have only just incorporated into my sex life is using a ball gag.

This may not seem like a revelation to a lot of readers but it was to me.

I had seen them before, of course, I had and I even had some in my sex toy collection but I had never really used them to their full potential or invested in a high-quality ball gag.

Things changed the day I really understood how to properly work with and use my ball gag and today is going to be all about that. How ball gags can make sex even better, especially kinky sex.

The ball gag I bought:

best ball gag

Truthfully I re-invested in this ball gag (if you live in Europe you can buy it here) after watching a porno, the woman in this particular porn film was gagged and bound but the way it was filmed was tasteful and you could tell the woman was really enjoying it. It was an Erica Lust film, she is one of the best porn directors in the industry, she has a great ethos and her films are a cut above the rest of the porn industry. The film got me thinking about how much I would probably enjoy using a ball gag, especially when restrained.

After finishing myself off with my bullet vibrator I decided to browse for a ball gag similar to the one the woman in this porno was wearing and not too long later, I found one that was extremely similar.

My ball gag has an adjustable silicone strap that can fit happily around most head sizes, breathable air holes inside the ball gag itself and it is also compatible with chains and leads so you can add accessories to it.

It’s really comfortable to wear as they are velvet-smooth so they don’t irritate the skin around your face, which some cheaper ball gags can actually do.

Something that really made me horny when I first bought it was that it was lockable so that when you choose your buckle you can take advantage of the lockable feature which ensures restraint and feels really kinky when wearing it.

How I Used This Ball Gag

lovehoney packaging

  • It arrived discreetly and quickly from Lovehoney, one of the only places I buy my sex toys from. They are discreet, have an amazing choice of products and their sex toys never let me down. Once it arrived, I opened the box and began googling all of the cool scenarios and things other people had done with their ball gag.

cartoon of restraints and ball gag

  • I saw that the best way to get the most out of your ball gag was to try out other methods of restraint too, I will talk more about these below but try out some bondage restraints to really make it the perfect scenario.

testing ball gag alone

  • I tried out my new ball gag when I was alone, I had heard it can be tricky to get the buckle fastened but I actually found no issues with fastening it and getting comfortable. I would suggest for everyone to know exactly how to get it on and off before having sex.

have a safe word

  • Because I was going to be adventuring into a kinky world of BDSM, me and my boyfriend decided we would have a signal for if things got too much (since I couldn’t speak with a ball gag in). We decided just three simple taps was a signal to stop what you’re doing. We never used our signal but it’s good to have that peace of mind.

Best Sex Positions To Use With A Ball Gag

girl laying on all fours in bed

It’s best not to have your nose constricted when using a ball gag, with mine there are air holes but when you’re panting and moaning I don’t find it particularly fun to be limited with my breathing so I like to stick to these sex positions.

  • Missionary
  • Doggy style
  • Cowgirl
  • Reverse cowgirl
  • Standing Up/Against A Wall
  • Plus, Oral sex is great

Other Methods Of Restraint That Make Sex Better

Of course, the ball gag isn’t the only thing you can use to make your sex better and even a little kinky. I use an array of sex toys to make me feel like a BDSM master and I am just going to let you in on a few of the tamer sex toys that you can use below.

bdsm restraints on a white background

The first thing I wanted to mention was these under the bed restraints, I LOVE these restraints, they are so easy to use, really comfortable and I actually found them to be a better quality and have lasted me a lot longer than my more expensive restraints.

The straps are velcro fastening and allow you to securely fasten your wrists and ankles with ease, it’s a great way to dip your toes into some BDSM and experience submission and control.

ankle restraint on female legs

these ankle cuffs are a great restraint method and these ankle cuffs are made from high-quality materials and thanks to the buckle they can accommodate most ankles so they are unisex.

Use these ankle cuffs paired with the ball gag and submit to your partner, do as they say and feel sexy and kinky as you use ankle cuffs during your sex session.

two sets of blindfolds

Using a blindfold gives you a heightened sensory response so anything your partner may do to you when you do have your eyes covered will feel amazing.

I talked about my experience when using a blindfold in this article: I just came hard using this sex machine. I mentioned how my boyfriend made it feel like there was a different man fu***** me and I still don’t know how he did it.

These satin-feel blindfolds feel incredibly soft on the skin and you can see absolutely nothing through either of these blindfolds when they are on your head.

bdsm gear

Although inexpensive in comparison to other collar and leads, this particular collar one is one of my favorites. It hasn’t let me down yet, it’s incredibly soft to the touch and it’s made from faux fur.

It fits most neck sizes and feels wonderful around your neck and to pull with the lead. Pair this lead with the ball gag and blindfold and just watch the kinky unfold into your both you and your partner. This collar and lead is so sexy, it’s a must-have when pairing with my ball gag.

How Did Using A Ball Gag Make Sex Better

girl in doggy style position

Using a ball gag made a lot of changes to our sex life, in ways that I didn’t think were even possible. When I first tried a ball gag I assumed it would feel fun and a little bit kinky but I didn’t think it would do what it did.

Using a ball gag made me really appreciate the dom and sub roles, as I mentioned before, me and my boyfriend are kinky but we don’t always just have one who submits and one who dominates, we constantly change roles but when I was using the ball gag it felt as if I HAD to behave.

I felt as if when the ball gag was in I was a total slave and my boyfriend was in total control.

At one point my boyfriend put me on my hands and knees, used my favorite bullet vibrator on my clitoris and then f**k me and having the ball gag in my mouth just made me want to moan louder and louder.

There’s something about being restricted via your mouth that just feels so sexy, it turns me into a total sex freak.

Overall, I would say that using a ball gag made my sex better because it allowed me to really let go and allowed me to experience submission and dominance on a whole new level.

The ball gag makes me want to scream out and moan at the top of my lungs (I think because of the restrictiveness), it makes me want to submit, it’s a new level of BDSM and kink that I am so glad I experienced sooner rather than later.

How To Get Comfortable With A Ball Gag

female lips

 

– I wasn’t sure if a ball gag would be for me…

I am not too comfortable with having my breathing constricted but after watching the porn film I mentioned at the start of this article, I knew I had to give it a try. My ball gag comes with air holes so although breathing is slightly restricted it does give you that piece of mind that actually you can breathe. If you’re not sure if you can get comfortable with your ball gag, try putting it on and off and breathing with it on before sex and you will see how easy it actually is.

– Talk to your partner beforehand about what you like and don’t like…

Make a code word or a code gesture that means you want them to stop. Using a ball gag doesn’t have to get THAT kinky but losing the ability to talk is kinky and it helps if you have a code gesture just to be safe.

– When fastening the ball gag make sure it is tight enough…

So that it won’t slip off and loose enough so that it won’t hurt your head. This is why it’s important to test it out before sex.

Should I Buy A Ball Gag?

should you buy a ball gag

If you’re anything like me then yes. It makes sex so kinky, it makes me feel so kinky, it allowed me and my partner to both explore submission and dominance on a whole new level.

It made me so horny to play with and I know it turned my boyfriend on just by watching me and the visuals of me with the ball gag in my mouth.

The ball gag I love is often out of stock so if you do see it in stock make sure to take advantage.

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