If you read my article on the greatest male sex toys that my boyfriend owns you will know that he does enjoy trying new things and doesn’t really have any specifics when it comes to sex toys.
His rules are that if it feels good, isn’t too intimidating and will make him cum mercilessly then he will give it a go.
As we were engaging in some foreplay last night before we started using one of my favorite sex toys (My luxury vibrator) I did briefly think that it’s not often that I talk about the sex toys my boyfriend likes using, it’s usually about me and my orgasms and I especially don’t talk about his prostate sex toys so I thought today would be the ideal time to mention his prostate orgasms and what he likes to use to achieve these intense finishes.
Prostate sex toys can work for absolutely any man and some can even be unisex so that they double up as a sex toy for both men and women.
One of the first and one of his absolute favorite prostate massagers is this little pocket rocket:
This is the Lelo luxury vibrating prostate massager (you can also get it in Europe here) it has one constant speed and 5 different patterns to choose from. It’s shaped perfectly to vibrate, massage and stimulate the P-spot, it even has a flared base so you don’t have to worry about it going up too far and travelling too unwanted places.
My boyfriend initially was unsure about the one constant speed but in the end, he actually mentioned that this was one of the best things about it. The constant speed and his favorite pattern combined made his P-spot dance with pleasure.
My boyfriend uses this prostate massager alone and with me in the bedroom and I can say when I have been there to witness what this does to him, it is seriously sexy and leaves him in a state of complete ecstasy.
It’s easy to change the patterns and turn the prostate massager off thanks to the push button controls and it can be fully charged in 60 minutes and from that, you get 120 minutes of play which is more than enough.
The longevity of the charge is a bonus for him as he often forgets to charge his sex toys after use, it’s also ideal for those who like to take their sex toys travelling as this prostate massager can work in countries all over the world.
My Boyfriends First Experience With This Prostate Massager
He doesn’t want me to go into too much detail, he just mentioned that any male will just know how good this is going to feel when they get it into their hands. They may be apprehensive but once it’s working its way in you won’t want it to stop.
However, despite this bit of advice, I did still want to briefly want to explain what he went through when he first tried out this prostate massager.
He had fooled around with his P-spot before (thanks to me!) and did love the stimulation and the type of orgasms it can give, mentioning that it is unlike anything you could imagine. so when we ordered the luxury prostate massager he thought he knew what to expect.
I wasn’t there the day it arrived but he pulled it out of the box, felt how soft and high-quality it felt, immediately applied some of his favorite water-based anal lube and sat upon the prostate massager.
It is important to mention that he was horny before all of this and mentioned he was walking around rock hard for most of the day.
Anyway, he sat upon the prostate massager and switched it on.
He placed it on the second to the highest setting and said his butt clenched around this sex toy and he could feel he was on the edge of an orgasm. The vibrations and pattern from the prostate massager were pushing his P-spot to the point of no return and when he came it felt like a volcano had erupted inside of his body.
It happened again when he went to retrieve the prostate massager and felt just as incredible.
It left him weak, squirming with pleasure and completely submissive to this prostate massager. Obviously, when he told me this story I was so intrigued and begged to see him use it and with my own eyes, I saw the pleasure it gave him and it made me horny just watching him.
Other Prostate Massagers He Uses
The prostate massager above is his favorite, he uses it A LOT and it still makes him cum like it did on day one, however, before he found that prostate massager he did have some other firm favorites that we wanted to show you below.
This is the Tracey Cox supersex vibrating butt plug and it’s actually unisex and I have tried out. We both like to use this vibrating butt plug, it feels amazing for me and when it’s inside of me my boyfriend will go inside of my pu**y and he can feel the vibrations on his penis.
It heightens the pleasure and feels great for both parties, it’s also really inexpensive and made by Tracey cox who is awesome.
When my boyfriend puts it in himself he likes to hand me the remote control and I change up the speeds whilst blowing him. It’s thrilling. It leaves him moaning in pleasure and has him screaming my name.
It’s small, ideal for beginners and non-intimidating for if you’re a bit apprehensive about butt play.
My boyfriend loves the nexus revo 2 it was one of his first ever prostate massaging sex toys. It stimulates both the P-spot and the perineum so you can experience double the pleasure.
The shape of this male sex toy is also awesome as it means it won’t ride up inside of you if that’s something you worry about. It’s also really easy to insert thanks to its shape.
The different modes of vibration are incredible and really make this prostate massager what it is. My boyfriend still uses this sex toy, the vibrations start you off slowly before you eventually climax with extreme power. The nexus will remain a firm favorite of his.
Something we love about this P-spot anal vibrator is that it comes with a handy bullet vibrator that slips inside of this dildo and takes stimulation onto another level. It’s another unisex sex toy, so of course, we have both given it a go.
The dildo is perfectly shaped to stimulate her G-spot or his P-spot, the ridges of this dildo feel incredible when they are inside of you and the added bullet vibrator is a wonderful touch.
You can even slip this dildo into most O-rings so you can use it during pegging sex. Read and see what happened when I pegged my boyfriend for the first time. The vibrations when you slip it into a pegging harness are incredible, they ripple across my entire pu**y and send shivers down my boyfriend’s spine.
This vibrating dildo makes you feel full and is a great unisex addition to any collection.
Our 10 function vibrating butt plug is made from soft silicone and boasts 10 different vibration modes for you to enjoy. The pointed tip delivers thrilling sensations that ripple through the entire canal and send waves of pleasure around the P-spot and perineum.
It is controlled via the push button control that features a lengthy 28-inch cord. Make sure to use plenty of water-based anal lube when using any sex toy on this list as this makes for a much more comfortable insertion.
Just like with the other wired remote control prostate massager, I love to use this on my boyfriend and give him a blowjob at the same time, the double stimulation sends him over the edge every time. You should read all about how to suck a big dick or how to suck a small dick so that you can really pull out every move when using this butt plug.
The flared base also delivers pleasure but it also stops over insertion and makes sure your vibrating butt plug doesn’t ride up too far.
The final prostate sex toy I wanted to show is this the Aneros Vibrating Prostate Massager it is on the higher price scale but it is amazing and worth the extra cash.
It has a bullet vibrator inside with 9-functions for you to cycle through and the prostate massager itself is designed with anatomic precision to work hand in hand with the male and his P-spot.
The curves of this prostate massager push against and stimulate the male P-spot and leave him gasping for breath once he has felt the pleasure that this sex toy emulates.
It’s an incredible sex toy that keeps you on your toes and keeps the orgasms flowing thanks to its perfect design and attention to detail.
Its design is also pretty discreet so its ideal for beginners and those who like to keep their pleasure under wraps or even for those who like to take their sex toys on holiday. This sex toy won’t arouse much suspicion thanks to its unique design, the only thing you need to be careful of is how much noise you make when its inside of you.
Tips For Using A Prostate Massager For The First Time
- Make sure to use plenty of anal water-based lube, water-based is important as it’s safe to use with sex toys and condoms. Even if you think you need a small amount, use a tiny bit more. You can never have too much lube.
- Relax, ease in the prostate sex toy and start slowly. If you are new to anal play it may take you a few tries before you are comfortable with slipping the prostate massager in all the way. This is one of the many reasons I love my favorite prostate massager (first on this list) is because you can use the vibrations to stimulate the area.
- Play around with the prostate massager before inserting it, test out the speeds and settings so that insertion goes as smoothly as possible.
- The best positions are on your back and inserting that way or sitting back on the prostate massager, whatever feels more comfortable for you.
- Vibrations feel great but it’s not until you hit that P-spot when you feel the waves of pleasure, so please persevere if you’re not feeling it at first.
- Clean your prostate massager after every use and store it clean and dry. It will help prolong the life of your sex toy and keep it in the best condition.
- No matter what prostate sex toy you buy, google some tips and advice before using it, you may find something that feels incredible and makes your experience 10x better.
- Shower before you use your prostate sex toy.
- Lay a towel beneath you to protect your bedsheets and when you cum it will make for an easy cleanup.
Using Your Prostate Massager During Sex
This can be a tricky step for some men, asking their partner to use the prostate massager during sex or even just initiating the use of the prostate massager, however, I have some great tips for using your prostate massager during sex.
Ask your partner how they would feel about you using your prostate massager during sex
Explain to your partner how good it feels when using your prostate massager and that you want to share the pleasure with them
When using your prostate massager during sex you can really experience controlled orgasms and even try something new
Insert the prostate massager and have your partner perform oral sex on you to really experience combined stimulation, you most likely won’t last long but it will feel incredible
Let your partner insert the prostate massager and play with the settings, involve them in your orgasm as much as possible.
Always shower beforehand and ensure you are clean
Think about roleplay scenarios where you could involve your prostate sex toy, things like threesomes, BDSM, submissive scenarios etc, just let your imagination run wild