This BDSM collar changed my sex life

Updated: 17/08/2023

If you have never tried a BDSM collar before, today is the day you are going to try one. They take vanilla sex to something straight out of 50 shades of grey.

My boyfriend loves to lead me around our bedroom, taking me to his cock and forcing me to go wherever he does on all fours.

Using a sex collar is so kinky, whenever I catch a glimpse of my reflection it makes me feel so sexy and it turns my boyfriend on so much seeing me bound and submissive to him.

Sex collars don’t have to be expensive and mine certainly isn’t, it’s high-quality, works wonders, and makes me feel like a little sex kitten.

Make sure to also check out all of my home BDSM ideas.

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The Best BDSM Collar I’ve Ever Used

This is my faux leather collar and lead. It’s really inexpensive and for the incredible quality, resistance, and overall feel of this collar and lead set, it’s an amazing price.

The faux leather is supple and strong and just like real leather except it’s animal-friendly and you don’t need to care for it as you would real leather. The collar features a sturdy buckle fastening for ultra BDSM fun, you also don’t need to worry as the collar is comfy and doesn’t cause friction on your neck.

Being pulled around by a black (faux) leather collar and the lead is divine and makes you feel like a professional BDSM master( You can download a BDSM test here ).

The black-on-black is ultra sexy and delivers itself to you in true BDSM style.

I like to slip this collar on, I can easily fasten it myself, and then when I am feeling kinky and horny, I will attach the lead and hand it to my boyfriend. He takes me around the bedroom and leads me to where he wants me. It’s the ultimate submission.

Playing around with dom and sub roles is really fun roleplay and incorporating a BDSM collar into that can be thrilling.

The reviews of this collar:

I was looking for something to buy and came across BDSM collars, I was sold before I had already bought but when I read some of the reviews just to make sure my heart almost skipped a beat. These anonymous people had had some incredibly kinky times and were shocked at just how good the sex collar was. Not just that but some of them went into incredible detail on the collar and lead and reading about their sexual experiences turned me on and made me want one desperately.

Here are just a few snippets of some of the reviews:

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I never thought I’d ever use a BDSM collar (My erotic story)

Me and my boyfriend like to switch dom and sub roles a lot but I definitely prefer being the submissive a lot of the time. I love to explore this side of myself, there are so many depths to both of these roles and being able to explore is thrilling for us both.

I had heard that using a lead and collar was incredibly kinky and it was just something I wanted to try, even if I hated it at least I could say I had tried it.

I read all of the BDSM online guides and knew that using just the collar without the lead was something some couples did but I wanted to try everything.

It arrived promptly and we were both extremely horny, foreplay was definitely on the cards. I was wearing some of my fetish wear and my boyfriend was rock hard.

My pu**y was dripping and we were lusting after each other, we could barely keep our hands off of each other and things got steamy fast. There was lots of oral, nipple sucking, ball play, and deepthroating.

Do you know when you just can’t get deep enough and every touch makes you moan out in pleasure? That’s how horny we were.

I had the collar on through all of this but my boyfriend slipped the lead on and made me stand up and then get on all fours, he dragged me around the bedroom and then yanked me towards his cock, and told me to suck it, I did so enthusiastically and he was grabbing on to the bedsheets for mercy.

He yanked my collar and lead again just before he was about to cum and made me turn around on all fours, he thrust his rock-hard cock inside of my tight pu**y and yanked the collar so that my head was forced back, also grabbed my throat. He came very quickly.

After he was done he pulled me onto my back and performed oral on me with the lead still firmly in his hand and restricting my head movements, I came quickly and we both let out a huge sigh.

A sex collar was welcomed into our bedroom with open arms after that session.

 How Me & My Boyfriend Use This BDSM Collar

I haven’t used this collar and lead on my boyfriend yet so, for now, I will talk about how my boyfriend uses this BDSM collar on me and what he does that makes it feel so great for us both.

• He controls & treats me like I’m his sex slave

My boyfriend tells me what to lick, what to suck, and when to fuck and leads me around using the lead and collar. He takes the role of being a dom and tells me exactly what to do and how to do it. It really turns me on being treated like a sex slave by him.

• He uses it to keep me facing forward during doggy style

He tells me to get on all fours and keeps the lead firmly in his hand, pulling on it whenever he wants. It keeps my head firmly in place and submits me to a position. Feeling the tug around my throat is so erotic and a huge turn-on.

• He leads me around the house, pulling the collar

I read about this online and wanted us to try it. During foreplay and sex, even if he wants a drink he will take me with him on all fours, being led by my collar. We even had sex in the kitchen once because it was so kinky being in there, making a drink, and trying to please one another.

• He used it to guide me during foreplay

I like to suck his dick and have him tell me what he wants me to do while pulling on the lead. It’s thrilling to be controlled so intimately. I know when he uses the lead and I want him to stop licking my pussy, I’d pull on the lead, then control him to what I wanted next (Which is what he does to me).

Other Sex Toys That Complement The BDSM Collar

There are a few things that you can add to your BDSM collar to make it even more kinky and satisfying. This is my toy collection but below are a few favorites that go incredibly well with a sex collar.

This magic wand vibrator

Using the magic wand vibrator whilst being controlled by the collar and lead is out of this world. You have absolutely no control and even when you cum you can’t make it stop, which makes for intense multiple orgasms. I am also looking forward to having my boyfriend use it on me when I am in charge of the lead and collar, it’s so intense.

This suction dildo works great for threesome simulating

Ride this dildo hands-free, be stimulated by it, or even simulate a threesome. There is so much fun to be had, you just need to explore and find what gets you off.

I wear this sexy BDSM lingerie

You can find this BDSM lingerie in my fetish wear article. I love it so much, it makes me feel so sexy and it turns my boyfriend on so much seeing me in it. The basque, suspenders, and G-string are beautiful and make for an awesome BDSM outfit.

Q & A About BDSM Collars

• How do I get my man to take control in the bedroom?

Just ask! Tell him that it turns you on when he’s dominant, tell him what you would like to try and you could even read articles, forums, and watch videos together to see where to start for beginners. Just guide each other in the bedroom and have fun with it.

• How do I get my partner to let me try a BDSM collar?

Let your partner know how much you want to try it and what you want to do with it, chances are they will be down for trying it out if they see how much you want to.