This collection of BDSM lingerie will turn anyone on

Most of us can relate to how sexy and wonderful it feels to wear lingerie, it makes me feel like a million dollars when I am wearing it and my boyfriend LOVES it.

There’s something so sexy about finding a lingerie set that not only suits you but one that you love and makes you feel like a dominating prowess when you’re wearing it.

I try to wear nice lingerie a lot of the time (when I am not going braless!) because it makes ME feel good, although my boyfriend’s reaction to some of my sets has been pretty outstanding.

He loves to watch me parade around in my BDSM lingerie sets and then we usually have a steamy f**k session. So as you can see we both benefit from sexy lingerie.

I wanted to share with my lovely blog readers my favorite BDSM lingerie sets. I have been getting so into BDSM and dominating these past few weeks and sharing the lingerie I like to wear only seemed fair.

My Absolute Go-To BDSM Outfit

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This Sheer Garter Bodystocking is so sexy to wear, it’s an all-in-one mini dress lingerie set that’s sheer enough to show off enough skin to make you feel amazing but it’s also discreet enough to wear under clothes, which is one of my favorite things to do.

The garters never fall down as it’s an all-in-one piece, which is a huge bonus if you’re like me and spend half of your time pulling up garters that make their way down your legs. The lace edges of this body stocking make it feel so much more expensive than it is, as does the halter neck and black material. It just feels like it should be from an expensive elite store.

Something that also makes this one of my favorite BDSM lingerie sets is the sheer material, it feels so nice to touch but it feels even better to look at. It’s so tantalizing and even wearing it and feeling the sheer material against my nipples starts turning me on.

My Boyfriend LOVES this Lingerie set!

Most importantly for me and lingerie is if it makes me feel good, I will wear it but another huge selling point is if my boyfriend loves it then it gives me that extra boost of confidence and sex appeal.

We have been really getting into BDSM lately and this BDSM collection inspired me to actually purchase the sheer lingerie set.

The first time I wore the sheer lingerie set I hid it under my coat, I know that sounds so cliche but I had seen it in movies and always wondered what it was like. I tied the coat and I was anxious about someone asking for me to remove my coat but nevertheless I wanted to surprise my boyfriend.

We were meeting for a drink on a Friday night and as we stood at the bar I undid my coat so only he could see what was underneath, his eyes widened and we both giggled as I stood there in a bar with my nipples poking through the sheer fabric and my pu**y covered only by the tiniest of material.

We quickly finished our drinks and ran home, my boyfriend was gobsmacked that I had gone out in just my lingerie but it turned us both on so much. It’s safe to say that night that we fu**ed like horny, desperate teenagers, except we had rope, sex toys and restraints.

Why You Need This Lingerie

This sheer lingerie set is so flattering, it hugs your curves and looks incredible on anybody. It’s all about your confidence and how you wear it but it’s so flattering that you can’t help but feel yourself when you look in the mirror when wearing it.

It not only feels good for you when you’re wearing it but for me, it also felt wonderful when I saw my boyfriends reaction and he just couldn’t keep his hands off me. Every time I wear this lingerie mini dress he just loses all self-control and it makes me feel amazing.

This is a review from the website from someone else that obviously loves my favorite lingerie set:

“The lace is perfect and gives the outfit just enough detail without it being too in your face. It’s elegant and sexy at the same time, and made me feel beautiful when wearing it! Like I said before, the other half loves this too, and couldn’t keep his hands off me! And even asked me to wear it around the house once we had finished in the bedroom.”

Whether you’re totally body confident or like to hide your tummy from time to time, this lingerie set is perfect. It’s sexy with its sheer material, suspenders, halter neck and mini-dress appeal but its also incredibly flattering and shows off all of the right bits.

My I’m Feeling Sexy As F**k‘ Outfit

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If you can take your eyes off of that photo for just one second, let me introduce you to the cupless basque lingerie set. This wet look basque makes me feel like another woman, whenever me and my boyfriend are looking to get kinky, I put this on and release my inner dominatrix.

The open cups give something so spectacular to this BDSM inspired lingerie set, as do the suspender straps and G-string.

It’s so sexy to look at and when I am wearing it I feel so confident and love unleashing my inner beast. My boyfriend adores this lingerie set, he practically cums just watching me parade around in it.

This BDSM Outfit Comes Out When…

This lingerie set doesn’t come out every time we have sex but it does come out when we want to explore some more of our hardcore fantasies. Fantasies like pegging, dominating, BDSM dominatrix and threesome fantasies all come out along with this outfit.

It’s incredibly sexy to wear and flatters any figure, it’s definitely one of my favorite BDSM lingerie outfits.

Trick That Makes This Lingerie Better

Thanks to the open cups these nipple suckers can take your experience from an 8 to a 10. The gentle vacuum created from these nipple suckers draws blood into the nipple and makes your nipples more sensitive and aroused, which is a huge bonus if your boobs are exposed.

They are a great addition to this BDSM lingerie set as they make your nipples so much more sensitive to every touch so that every touch has a thrilling sensation added to it. They are really inexpensive and really made a difference to my sex life, I love nipple play and the sensations from these easy to use little things were incredible.

Hiding Your Nipples?

These X shaped nipple pasties are for those who want to really add a spin on to the cupless lingerie set, in fact, they are for any person who gets off at the thought of these sexy pasties covering their nipples.

There are two different sets included, one is plain black and the other has a kind of snakeskin effect, both look amazing on the nipple and both last for up to 8-hours.

My ‘I Want To Be f***ed’ BDSM Lingerie

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This is the beautiful wine colored satin and black lace basque with matching thong and garters. It’s a beautiful lingerie piece made with exquisite detail and crafted from high-quality materials. The cups lift your breasts to new heights and the basque itself curves itself around your body and shapes it to perfection.

I don’t always like being dominated, in fact, I prefer being submissive a lot of the time and when I am wearing this lingerie set I love to be in total submission to my boyfriend, I love him to take charge and do all of the naughty things he loves doing to me whilst I just submit to him.

There are so many details added to this lingerie set, the sheer mesh material that flutters its way around your entire waist, the matching thong that comes with this outfit that looks so sexy to wear, the satin belt that can be untied and used during sex are just a few of the things that make this lingerie set one not to be missed.

I Add Crotchless Thongs To This Outfit

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I love to be kinky and adding crotchless panties to a lingerie set that’s so angelic definitely makes it more me. This pair of crotchless panties comes with 4 removable suspender straps, colored contrast ribbons, a ribbon lace up back and floral lace detailing.

They are so beautiful to wear and although I do pair mine with my lingerie sets, I also like to wear these on normal days and surprise my boyfriend in tricky situations.

Wearing crotchless panties with a lingerie set means you don’t need to remove any items of clothing and it’s actually a huge turn on for me and my boyfriend.

I Wear This Lingerie To Dominate Him

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Enjoy this wet look cupless crotchless lingerie set. As you can see it’s extremely revealing and not for the faint-hearted,

Despite what it seems its actually very comfy to wear because of the stretchiness of it, however, this isn’t the only reason I love it. I love it because of how sexy it makes me feel, the wet look of it makes it look like it just walked straight from a BDSM porn film. It comes with an O-ring, silver studs that make it look daring and even more sexy, a halter neck and G-string tie.

It’s so kinky and when I am feeling ultra naughty I whip this lingerie set out and take my boyfriend by storm. I like to pair this lingerie set with some high heels to really take this set to the next level.

The first time I wore this lingerie I was a little intimidated, I wasn’t sure if I could pull it off but once I saw myself in the mirror, slipped on my high heels and saw how it made my boyfriends jaw-drop I knew it was going to be for me.

I love wearing this set when I dominate my boyfriend, he loves me to take total control when I am wearing this lingerie set. I don’t know what it is about it that makes me feel so alive and confident but it sure does.

I Wear This When I’m Playing It Safe

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I am well aware that my ‘playing it safe’ might be different to others but this is my zip up crotchless teddy. It has a wet look that makes it look beautiful and edgy, the dual zip up aspect makes it incredibly kinky and means you can unzip the butt whilst the rest of you stays zipped up.

The high neck adds a kinky, edgy and biker chick kind of vibe. The cut of this teddy also accentuates your legs and hips, which gives you a confidence boost.

I wear this teddy a lot of the time, my boyfriend loves it, it’s so easy to slip on and it allows me to feel confident without showing too much and it’s pretty versatile thanks to its dual zipper.

Make Lingerie 1000% Sexier With This Advice

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I just wanted to give you a few pointers on things that I do to keep my lingerie sexy and to keep myself feeling sexy. It’s really important that you feel good when wearing your lingerie so read my tips and take them into account so that you can get the most out of your lingerie sexual experiences.

  • Keep your lingerie cum/stain free

cleaning bdsm lingerie

Keeping your lingerie clean is something everyone should be aware of otherwise it may start to smell what with all the wonderful sex juices.

You will find instructions on how to keep your lingerie clean on the packaging, make sure to always read this properly as some can be handwash only. Keeping your lingerie clean will make you feel much more confident when wearing it.

  • Add a whip, crop or flogger to your outfit

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If you’re into a little bit of sub and dom play consider getting a whip, crop or flogger. These go especially well with the more risky lingerie sets above, they complete the whole dominatrix look and help you achieve the whole package.

  • Restrain your partner to the bed and dominate them

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Try something new or just do something you always do but it makes it hotter by wearing lingerie. Something we love to do is restrain my boyfriend to the bed, I like to give him a seriously wet blowjob and just let him stew in his pleasure by not letting him cum and teasing him into submission. The lingerie seriously helps.

Something else I really feel will help your dominatrix lingerie session is using this vagina tightening trick. It just makes you tone up a little bit down there, give you stronger orgasms and allow you to make your boyfriend look at you wide-eyed and in awe as he feels the walls tightening around his c**k.

  • Candlelight sex session

Candlelight

If you feel a little bit shy in your lingerie get used to your new outfit in candlelight or in a really dim light. It can help you get used to wearing something so kinky and we all know candlelight makes you look a million times better.

  • Stockings are hot as F!

Wearing stockings can take a lingerie set and make it tens times better and most of my lingerie sets actually already come with garter clips attached so you just need to pick up stockings and you have a completely new kinky outfit.

You can also DIY some fishnets which are also super hot:

If you’re all out of ideas for stockings I thought you would appreciate seeing my favorites.

These sheer black lace top stockings are ideal to pair with your lingerie to make for an even kinkier outfit, they also make you feel amazing and like a sexy working woman when you wear them out of the house.

  • Add a vibrator to your panties

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I found vibrating panties a while ago (what happened when I tried vibrating panties) but if you want to just skip to the good stuff and learn about my favorite pair of vibrating panties read on below.

I added a whole new thrill to going out in public by wearing this vibrator, you simply slip it into your underwear and control the vibrations via the remote control. It’s incredibly kinky to use and gave me sensational orgasms inside and outside of the house.

Slip this vibrator into the underwear the come included and enjoy thrilling sensations that push perfectly against your clitoris. I like to pair this pantie vibrator with my lingerie sets, hand the remote to my vibrator and enjoy every sensation that comes my way. It really takes things up a notch.

  • Coast yourself and your partner

coasting orgasm guide

Things will be over too soon when you look this hot, so coast and both build up your orgasm. Coasting or ‘edging’ is tricky, it’s where you build yourself up to the point of orgasm and don’t allow yourself to cum a few times. It’s a hard experience but when you finally can cum it’s exhilarating and feels so powerful.

Lingerie Q & A (Things I Get Asked)

I thought I would add a little Q&A for those who still have some unanswered questions if you do have any that aren’t here then please leave them in the comments below and I will answer anything you may need.

  • What if my lingerie doesn’t fit?

You get a 365 return on all the lingerie that I mentioned, however, all of them outline the sizing and measurements so your lingerie should fit and be perfect for you.

  • Can I Wear BDSM Lingerie Out In Public?

I do! Not everyone does because it can be a little tricky to find the right clothes but a loose dress, a big coat and even just a skirt and a shirt are enough to hide most lingerie sets so you can feel free to wear these out in public.

  • Crotchless Or Pantieless?

The choice really does come down to your own personal preference. I enjoy crotchless as I find it kinky and my boyfriend loves it, it’s just so sexy to be able to look like you have something on but when you open your legs find it’s easy to access. However, being pantiless is just as thrilling and it means fewer clothes to worry about.

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