I am new (ish!) to butt play and it was never really for me until I met my boyfriend and started this blog but one thing I have always loved is butt plugs.
I am a huge fan of butt plugs and always have been, they were a way for me to feel kinky without actually doing the whole thing, and even when I did start loving anal I still loved butt plugs. I find them to be really sexual, my boyfriend loves seeing them inside of me and I love the way they feel inside of me.
Wearing a butt plug means I can warm up the area before anal sex and hopefully achieve an anal orgasm (I can only do this when wearing my vibrating butt plug below).
I have tried out so many butt plugs but I do have a favorite and I wanted to share that with you today.
My favorite butt plug is this one:
This is the 10-function vibrating butt plug that I can’t recommend enough. It’s in a medium-size, which you may think won’t be great for beginners but I recommend this size as small is just too small and you don’t really feel anything, a medium can get you ready for anal and used to butt plugs and butt play and it feels fantastic.
Even now that I have ventured far into anal play I still use my medium-sized butt plug, I think the size is perfect and always feels great for me.
You can actually remove the bullet vibrator that comes with this butt plug and use it for direct clitoral, nipple, and penis stimulation but I usually leave it inside my butt plug as I think it’s one of the best things about it. It has 10 different speeds and patterns for you to cycle through, it has a flared base so it won’t ride up inside of you and it even has a tapered tip for maximum pleasure and pinpoint stimulation.
With 3 speeds and 7 patterns, this butt plug is unlike any other. Men can also use this butt plug, it isn’t just for women, and let me just tell you that the vibrations can send you into utter ecstasy but I will explain more on that below.
Why Vibrations And A Butt Plug?
I thought the same thing.
I couldn’t get into my head how vibrations would make a butt plug better, how could different speeds and patterns make butt plugs feel even more sensual for me?
The removable vibrator that’s built into this butt plug does something to my butt that is unlike anything I had ever felt with a butt plug before.
The vibrations take the sensation of using a butt plug to a whole new level. The vibrations radiate throughout my butt and I can even feel the vibrations making their way into my pu**y.
It feels incredible when my boyfriend fu**s me in my pussy and I have my vibrating butt plug in. He can feel the vibrations on his cock and seeing his enjoyment makes me even hornier.
More often than not I will actually have an anal orgasm (I had an anal orgasm using anal beads) as the vibrations ripple throughout my entire body and an all-over body orgasm feels sensational.
The vibrations from this butt plug feel incredible for women and take the butt plug sensations to a whole new level. I would recommend my vibrating butt plug to anyone looking for something a little kinky but something that still feels amazing.
Does The Butt Plug Feel Good For Men?
If you read my blog you will know that my boyfriend has recently ventured into butt play and he is loving it. Since he has started experimenting more and being more open to anal pleasure, his orgasms have been out of this world and he has experienced some of the best sensations of his entire life.
He knows how much I love this vibrating butt plug and I know how much he loves seeing me use it, so one day I decided that he should give my vibrating butt plug a try.
He was open to it as before this we had been experimenting anally with him. I tried out a pegging sex toy with him and we used a prostate massager together and both of these experiences went flawlessly.
My boyfriend inserted the vibrating butt plug with lots of water-based anal lube and switched on the vibrations, starting slowly at first.
He thrust himself inside of me whilst the butt plug stayed firmly in place and after a few thrusts, he could barely breathe! He was so turned on and experiencing so much incredible sensation that he was floored by this vibrating butt plug.
The vibrations were sending jaw-dropping sensations to his P-spot (inside of his ass) all while his penis was getting pleasure from my very wet pu**y.
When my boyfriend came he virtually screamed out in pleasure, the orgasm was heightened by the vibrations and everything felt more elevated.
He described the build of his orgasm being like a pulsating sensation that just kept becoming more and more intense the more time went on. He kept experiencing waves and waves of pleasure that were so intense when he did orgasm his whole body felt like it had erupted.
I most definitely converted my boyfriend to the world of butt plugs and I most definitely think that butt plugs are 100% for men as well. The orgasms my boyfriend experiences are so much more intense than usual and something all men should try.
Other Butt Plugs I Love Using
I thought I would include some more butt plugs for you to read about, some vibrate and some don’t but there should be something down there for everyone.
I mentioned before that I love butt plugs, I love the sensations and stimulation they give me as they caress my ass, if you’re male you can experience intense pleasure even without the vibrations as your P-spot is massaged and stimulated.
This is the small vibrating butt plug, it’s just like my favorite butt plug above except it’s in a size small and has 5 functions to play with.
Some people prefer small as it is less intimidating and easier to insert so really the choice is up to you. I love the feel of this butt plug, it’s ultra-smooth and really easy to insert thanks to the tapered tip.
The bullet vibrator is also removable so you can use the vibrator on the clitoris or other areas for a 2-in-1 sex toy. For the price, it’s amazing as you get two sex toys in one that will make you cum and scream out in pleasure. I love the medium size but I can totally understand those that go for this smaller size, especially men who are just starting out with butt play and are still a little hesitant with the area.
I needed to include this beginner’s anal kit because of its amazing value and it’s ideal for couples and solo experimenters of anal.
It comes with a slim butt plug, a vibrating butt plug, vibrating anal beads, and a probe, all of which feel amazing and are perfect for beginners. Having all of these sex toys in one kit is great value for money and you get to experience new things that you may not have tried before.
I am a big fan of sex toy kits (everything you need in a sex toy kit), I think they are a great way to build your collection and try new things.
All sex toys feel 10x better with lots of water-based lube so make sure to invest in some along with your anal sex toys or any sex toys for that matter.
I love the easy shape of these anal sex toys, they are non-intimidating and feel incredible inside of you thanks to the design and shape.
This is the thrusting vibrating butt plug that comes programmed with 7 vibration modes and 3 different patterns for you to enjoy and experiment with.
This butt plug thrusts in and out of you with ease and can be controlled via the wired remote and even secured to any hard and flat surface with its suction cup base, which is ideal as it means you can really get into positions you really enjoy and can experiment with different sensations thanks to the diversity of the positions you are able to get in.
Enjoy the excitement of hands-free play or have your partner take hold of the vibrations, patterns, and thrusts with the wired remote controller. There’s lots of fun to be had with this thrusting butt plug, the remote control adds a whole new element of fun and is incredibly kinky.
Something a little bit different I wanted to include was this inflatable vibrating butt plug. This allows you to experience and experiment with tailored stimulation.
All you need to do is insert the butt plug and then use the easy-to-use pump to inflate the butt plug until it is at a size that suits you and then use the controller to turn on the vibrations. The size can be quickly decreased or increased via the pump.
It’s an incredibly versatile butt plug and allows you to be satisfied no matter your preferred size. I think it’s fun to use when you’re alone or with your partner, you can let your imagination run wild and experience some new types of roleplay.
Feast your eyes upon the silicone butt plug with cock ring. Slip the comfortable cock ring over your penis and this will constrict the blood flow giving you a harder and more erect penis then slip the butt plug inside (use lots of anal lube) and enjoy perfect stimulation.
The shape of this butt plug is perfectly positioned to press against the P-spot and perineum, which will give you intense stimulation as soon as it’s slipped inside. Use it solo or with a partner and see if you can withstand the incredible dual stimulation.
Tips/Questions About Using A Butt Plug
Using a butt plug is very straightforward but I know for first-timers and those looking to get the most out of their butt plug like reading up on some tips, I definitely do and I consider myself quite an expert on sex toys and yet still find myself searching for tips and advice on ways I can improve my experiences:
How do I use anal sex toys for the first time?
- Make sure to start slowly. It’s really important that you enter slowly, take your time, and use loads of lube. Don’t force anything in and take your time. Warm up your ass with your fingers, oral sex, or just about anything else that you like that will get you aroused.
Do I have to use anal lube?
- You don’t have to, but I always use lots of anal lube. I say this all of the time but there really are no excuses when it comes to anal pleasure. By using lots of lube your butt plug will glide in easier and it will feel so much better. It really does feel so much more comfortable when using lube compared to not using it.
Should I use butt plugs with my partner?
- You can use butt plugs when you’re solo or with a partner, they are really versatile. I like to use mine with my boyfriend as he loves to see it inside of me and f*** me at the same time. My boyfriend puts his in when we are having sex or when he is solo and masturbating, both of us enjoy the sensations and put it in whenever we can.
Are there butt plugs for different genders?
- Most butt plugs are unisex unless explicitly stated otherwise. Most butt plugs are either unisex, for prostate massaging or aimed towards a more feminine look (diamond, foxtails, bunny tail plugs). However, 9 times out of 10 a butt plug is unisex and can be used on any butt.
I’m Jess and I’m a woman in my twenties. I created this blog to share my sexual experiences along with the experiences of people from all walks of life. I am actually quite introverted, but my boyfriend and I have a semi-open relationship and it’s really helped me open up and experience things I never thought I would and that’s one of the biggest reasons I created this. I hope you enjoy my blog as much as I enjoy writing for it. Read more about me.