How I have threesomes with just my boyfriend

Updated: 15/08/2023

If you read my blog you will know that me and my boyfriend like to simulate threesomes every once in a while with our sex toys.

I have been asked how we do this and I have been asked to go into a bit more detail because as it turns out, my readers are kinky and love the thought of a threesome without actually having one.

It may seem an impossible task but it is actually possible to have a believable threesome with just you, your partner, and a realistic sex toy. I would also recommend buying a blindfold and coming up with a sexy roleplay scenario but all of that comes down to you, although I will explain more about that during this article.

Couples may want to simulate a threesome for various reasons. Me and my boyfriend do it because we made a pact that we didn’t want a third person to intervene in our relationship at this moment, other couples do it to just spice up their sex life and others do it to see what a threesome might actually be like. There are lots of different reasons and now thanks to all of the sex toys that we have at our fingertips we can simulate a threesome with ease and in the comfort of our own home.

Sex Machine That Allows Us To Have A Simulated Threesome

Firstly, I wanted to show you some of the sex toys that we use that help us to simulate our threesomes. Of course, we own lots of sex toys so I am just going to include the top picks that allow us to really let loose and believe our threesome.

All my sex toys are from LoveHoney, I love their prices, discreet shipping, and incredible sex toys. My shelves are filled with their products!

This first sex toy is actually a sex machine, I swear by it, and not just for threesome scenarios, it’s awesome at getting you off during any scenario but threesomes are my favorites.

This is the best sex toy for simulating a threesome, we love this sex machine, it’s quite pricey but it’s worth every cent if you want to simulate a threesome as realistically and believable as possible, even if you don’t want to do that the way it makes you cum is shocking and unlike anything in its category.

It has a 360-degree rotational arm that allows you to get into so many positions and it is versatile so both male and female partners can ride it and give it a try. I actually mentioned how much this sex machine made me cum in this article: This sex machine made me cum hard.

This sex machine thrusts up to insane speeds and thanks to the realistic dildo and pu**y attachment, you feel like you are fuc**ng a real person. It is so believable and feels absolutely incredible.

The speed is easily controlled by the remote control so if you want it to go faster or smooth and steady, it’s easily done with the flick of the remote control.

The penis attachment is incredibly realistic with a pronounced head, a textured shaft, and lifelike sensations as they thrust inside of you and push against your G-spot with no difficulty. The vagina attachment has a realistic opening, plush pink lips, and a tight textured canal that sends most men over the edge on the first few thrusts.

Simulating A Threesome With This Sex Toy

My boyfriend and I like to get a blindfold, plenty of water-based lube, and set the scene.

Usually, I will mount the sex machine, apply my blindfold, and get to work. Before long my boyfriend will enter and thrust himself inside of my mouth or pu**y, depending on whether I am using the sex machine in my ass or pu**y!

It feels amazing and really feels like a threesome, I get off on it every time as it is just so believable. If you read this article you will see how one time I had no idea if it was my boyfriend in the room with me or not, which was so sensual and so kinky. It made me so wet and horny and it was all down to the sex machine above.

For my boyfriend, we do the same kind of thing except it’s reversed. He pounds away at the sex machine with a blindfold on, after a few minutes I will then enter the room and make him perform oral on me whilst he pounds away. We sometimes like to leave the dildo attachment and my boyfriend likes that on a slow setting inside of him whilst he goes down on me, although the vagina attachment is his all-time favorite.

There are so many different scenarios you can do to make this sex machine a believable threesome addition. You just have to do what you feel comfortable with and let your imagination run wild. Just make it even more believable by not speaking, wearing wigs, wearing blindfolds, and letting yourself go a little wild. There are even more tips on making it go as smoothly as possible at the end of this article.

Simulating A Threesome With A Sex Doll

I did a whole article on the most realistic sex dolls so you know I am a fan and using a sex doll is another top realistic way that you can simulate a believable threesome.

Something we love about sex dolls is that because they are so high-quality and realistic, you don’t just have to use them for threesomes, you can use them when you’re alone and without your partner. My boyfriend likes to use ours when he’s alone sometimes as it’s so sexy and feels great for him, although I usually do join in as I just can’t help myself.

Sex dolls come in all different shapes and sizes but I am going to show you just two of my top sex doll favorites that make for a three-way straight out of an erotic novel.

This is my favorite sex doll complete with a fuc**ble pussy, ass, and tits. Her silky smooth skin, complete with curves, her 36DD squeezable breasts, and her tight anus and vagina make this sex doll one of the most realistic available and one of the most amazing to add to your collection and use to simulate a threesome.

This sex doll is perfect for couples who want to really vamp up the realism with a realistic torso, breasts, and fuck*ble openings.

She is so realistic to the touch that she turns me on just stroking her pert breasts. My boyfriend likes to pound into her whilst I caress her breasts and lick his shaft as it thrusts in and out of her pu**y.

There is so much fun to be had with this realistic sex doll that simulating a threesome has never been so easy.

This is the realistic vagina and ass that is in a constant inviting doggie position. Extremely realistic to the touch, this realistic sex doll is perfect for those couples looking for something to use to simulate an awesome, believable threesome.

Plunge into her tight ribbed ass and then switch things up and explore her pink plush pu**y opening. Her holes are really tight so they deliver extreme pleasure whenever you wish.

Her skin is incredibly realistic, she’s heavy and she wears a US dress size 6-8.

As she’s in doggy style you can really get deep into her and let your three-way scenario run wild. Have your partner thrust inside of these sex dolls whilst also thrusting inside of you, blow your partner whilst they thrust in and out, pleasure yourself whilst you watch the pleasure unfold and so much more.

Smaller Sex Toys You Can Use To Simulate A Threesome

The sex dolls and the sex machine above can be a little intimidating for newbies so I did want to include some smaller sex toys that me and my boyfriend use to simulate our threeways. We use these when we are away and couldn’t carry our larger sex toys or when we are not in the mood for something large.

This is our realistic 6-inch dildo, I love this realistic dildo as it has so much attention to detail added to it and feels so lifelike when it thrusts inside of you. The bulbous head, the detailed shaft complete with veins, and the firm balls that feel so great to squeeze when you’re riding this cock.

It also has a suction cup base so you can apply it to any hard and flat surface, which is something I love to do as I love sticking it to my floor and riding this dildo whilst my boyfriend puts his penis in my mouth.

It’s a great addition to couples looking for something a little more discreet who want to roleplay some incredible three-way scenarios.

This is the realistic vagina masturbator that is modeled after the gorgeous Japanese adult star Hibiki Otsuki’s. I did actually write a whole article about our favorite porn star sex toys so you will know that we are fans of vaginas that are modeled from actual real-life vaginas.

Each stroke inside of this realistic vagina offers incredible stimulation, there’s even a protruding G-spot to make it even more realistic and sensational.

Apply plenty of lube and thrust inside of this realistic vagina and feel wonderful sensations that overwash you with pleasure. My boyfriend likes to use this sex toy as I use a prostate massager on his ass. It’s an awesome three-way scenario that always makes him cum extremely hard.

Let me introduce to you the double penetration strap with vibrating cock ring. This strap-on is a great way to simulate a three-way with a non-intimidating versatile sex toy.

Slip the flexible cock ring over your penis, switch on the vibrations, apply some water-based anal lube (My favorite anal lube), and get to work!
The vibrations from the cock ring will feel amazing for you both, you can feel the vibrations across your penis and the vibrations also push directly at the clit.

The strap-on measures 4 inches and is textured for your pleasure. This type of double penetration feels incredible and if done correctly can really help you to simulate a threesome with ease.

Best Tips For Having The Best Simulated Threeway

Once you get the juices flowing and you have the right sex toy for you that will help you to simulate a threesome you will notice that it’s pretty easy but I want to explain some of my favorite sex tips that helped us when we first started our simulated threesome experiences.

• Plan your scenario before you go for it, talk to your partner, and explain what you want to get from this scenario and what you want to imagine. For instance, explain to your partner that you would love for you to have his penis in your mouth and your sex doll in your ass.

• Turn off the lights to make it even more believable, light candles if you must but darkness is great as not only does it help you to let go of your inhibitions but it also helps you to really believe this threesome.

• If you really want to get into this, buy some wigs. They don’t have to be expensive just something to help your partner believe that you’re a different person.

• Wear perfume or aftershave that you have never worn before, the more out of the ordinary the better.

• Have a safe word for if things get too much or if you need to stop. This is important even if you’re having vanilla sex.

• Start off in the room on your own (this is what we do) and have your partner come in after a few minutes, make sure you have a blindfold on and everything is in position and ready to go.

• Try not to speak, you want to really immerse yourself in the scenario and make it realistic.