If you know my blog you know how much I talk about using water-based lube and I always recommend my favorite lube in most of my articles, I am slightly obsessed with my readers being well lubricated and I know the only way I can do that is if they know the importance of lubrication and the benefits of using it, especially during anal play.
However, today we are talking about anal lube. It is different from ordinary lube as it’s thicker, the consistency is different and it has an almost gel like feel to it.
Anal lube is a must even if you’re just exploring by yourself and have no intention of putting anything bigger than a butt plug in there, it’s a must-have for everyone.
Anal lube is a lot softer than regular lube and is definitely worth buying for anal play as it makes it a lot more comfortable.
The Best Anal Lube (My Favorite)
It can be used for any types of sex with any type of sex toy but it is slightly thicker so it is also ideal for anal play. I use it for both vaginal and anal play but the consistency works really well with anal play and is one of the best anal lubes I have ever used.
This anal lube is made from botanical extracts and it is actually aloe-based so you can imagine just how soft and wonderful this anal lube is and great it feels to apply.
Something else I love about it is that a little goes a long way, because of its thickness and consistency you don’t need much of it when applying it to yourself or your sex toys.
This lube is natural and made from safe ingredients, it’s also suitable for vegans and vegetarians so you know there’s nothing nasty in there.
I will always recommend this anal lube, I always re-purchase it as it works so well for me and I can’t get enough of it, especially when using it for anal play.
Something else that I have noticed other people mention is that the bottle is actually quite discreet, so if you don’t live alone or have prying eyes around your home, it doesn’t scream anal lube like some other bottles do.
Sex Essentials To Make Anal Play More Comfortable
I love anal play now but it wasn’t always like that, I used to be quite hesitant about it and was afraid to explore, however, once I overcame that barrier, it is now one of my favorite things to do.
I like to explore anal especially when using my sex machines (I just came HARD using this sex machine) it allows me and my boyfriend to simulate and roleplay threesomes, which is something that turns us both on and leaves us feeling very satisfied.
I do believe that having some sex essentials make for a better anal experience. Whether these sex toys are to relax the area, make it feel better when you’re exploring the area or simply because you like the look of them.
Below you will find all of my anal sex essentials, that make anal play more comfortable and even more incredible.
This is the desensitizing anal cream it is a fast-acting relaxant that you apply to your anus about 10 minutes before embarking on your anal adventure.
Use this cream in conjunction with my anal lube and experience total comfort with anal sex and sex toys.
Just be aware that this desensitizing cream isn’t safe to use with condoms or sex toys as it isn’t water-based. You can use non-latex condoms but just be aware of this before having sex.
Always also make sure to take things really slowly, anal sex shouldn’t hurt and this relaxant cream will desensitize your anus so warm up beforehand and know your limits.
A small squirt goes a long way so be aware of this when applying!
These are the 12 inch Tracey Cox anal beads that will help you to warm up the area and an added bonus is that they feel amazing as they pop inside and out of you.
Both me and my boyfriend love these anal sex beads, you experience a different kind of pleasure as these are pushed up and pulled out of you, it’s incredibly sensual and something everyone should try, especially those looking into anal.
You simply push these anal beads in as far as you want, leave them in during foreplay and pull them out when you orgasm and this alone intensifies the orgasm.
They give you incredible stimulation and allow you to practice with anal and prep the area so that anal experiences are more comfortable.
These anal beads are soft, flexible and easy to use, ideal for beginners and more advanced anal experimenters. Just make sure to apply plenty of anal lube so that they glide in and don’t cause any friction.
This is one of my favorite anal douches that I love to use before anal sex. It’s so simple to use and makes me feel more confident before anal and I know my boyfriend is the same.
My boyfriend used this before we tried pegging for the first time (See what I happened when I tried pegging toys on my boyfriend for the first time), he said it was great and really made him feel more confident too.
You simply fill the douche with warm room-temperature water (test the heat on your wrist first), apply some anal lube to the tip of the douche, slide it into your anus and gently squeeze, the water will then expel naturally and clean you out in the meantime.
It’s really inexpensive and I do recommend it to everyone who is looking to go down the anal route, it gives you peace of mind that things aren’t going to get messy when exploring in there. I don’t use every single time I know I am going to have anal, just every few weeks or on a really special night.
This is the best anal silicone lubricant that I have come across. Some people prefer silicone for anal and it all boils down to people’s individual preferences. Silicone lube is a lot thicker but it is harder to get off sex toys, but as I said some people just prefer it. I prefer the anal lube that I mentioned first as it is natural and thick but this is the best silicone lube I have ever tried. It lasts a long time and a little goes a long way.
This particular silicone lube is safe to use with condoms and non-silicone sex toys, it has a long-lasting formula and can also be used for intimate massages.
Getting your anus prepared for anal sex toys and anal sex is really recommended and this is the 5 set anal dilator kit.
There is 5 butt plugs all increasing in size, starting from small and ending in a butt plug that would make even advanced anal fans excited.
These butt plugs are tapered for easy insertion and with some anal lube, relaxation and patience you will be able to insert any of these butt plugs.
By practicing with these butt plugs and getting used to something in your anus you will find anal sex with a penis and larger sex toys a lot easier.
Tips For Anal Play
I wanted to share some of my favorite anal sex tips, as I mentioned right at the start of this article that I didn’t use to like anal but once I got into it and realized how much pleasure I could have I started loving it and so did my boyfriend.
- Start slowly, ease yourself in and relax.
- Warm up your anus before you try shoving ANYTHING in there. Ensure you are well lubricated as this makes anal a whole lot easier and better.
- Anal should never hurt if it starts hurting stop what you are doing and try warming up the area again.
- Be highly aroused before going there, it also doesn’t help to have a few orgasms beforehand.
- Use towel or dark sheets for just in case it gets messy but using an anal douche does help this.
- The best sex position for anal sex is in a spooning position, sitting on your partner’s lap, or doggy style. Doggy style is the easiest but your partner can’t see your facial reactions so be sure to let them know if you are in pain.
- Get to know yourself first! Some people don’t do this but if you have some free time to explore your anus with your fingers or a small sex toy, there’s no reason why not.
- Always control the pace of the sex toy or penis making its way into you, never just thrust it in, even if it feels great, go slowly!